Those whove managed to keep tabs on the coordinates of my far-flung family know I have a husband in Colorado, a daughter with me in Florida and another daughter in Texas allegedly attending college.
Its complicated, and just got more complicated.
The Texas daughter now has a boyfriend. (The nerve!) Holding up the family tradition of not living in the same state as your significant other, shes chosen a young man who lives in Colorado. There he also allegedly attends college, though Im not sure how, given all the time he spends texting and calling Paige.
They met last summer at a camp where they both worked as counselors. Unlike most teen summer romances, this one did not fade by Thanksgiving. Now The Boyfriend is coming to Florida for Thanksgiving.
For the whole week!
Over the past few months, I have taken comfort in knowing my daughters romantic interest lives several states away, where he should stay until shes about 33, so she can get some studying done.
Ive had lots of houseguests over the years, but a boyfriend houseguest? Never. I begin to seriously rethink the guest room. Rather than fret about the condition and quantity of down pillows and sheets, I contemplate surveillance cameras and motion detectors.
Paige will stay in her room upstairs. The Boyfriend will sleep in the guest room downstairs. Between them lies a set of ancient wooden stairs, which creak like a graveyard gate. I picture ways I can booby-trap them wax them and rig them with a string of tin cans.
Its not that I dont trust my daughter. I do. (Him, Im not so sure.) Dont worry, dear. Ill have the guest room all ready.
Motion lights are going in this week.
Regardless of whos visiting you this holiday season, its a good time to give the guest room a once-over to make sure it has the essentials, plus a few tailored touches depending on the guest. Here a few of my tips, along with some from Sally Morse, director of creative services for Hunter Douglas, a leading maker of window coverings:
Storage space: Guests dont usually want to look like slobs, but they will if you dont give them space to put their stuff. Clear out the closet. Leave some good hangers. If the room has a dresser, empty a couple of drawers. Install hooks behind doors for coats, purses and towels. If space is tight, a folding luggage rack would be welcome.
A well-dressed bed: All-cotton, high-thread-count white sheets, please. Layers are luscious and down is dreamy.
Privacy: The room should have window coverings that not only add a decorative touch, but also provide privacy and light control, Morse said.
Layered lighting: In addition to overhead light, have a lamp on the bedside table, one the guest can reach from the bed. A nightlight will help guests find their way in the dark.
Dual purpose: If your guest room doubles as a home office, gym or den, move out or hide the non-bedroom items. Put the stationary bike in the garage and the files in a covered basket. Try to make the conversion to a bedroom as convincing as you can.
Mirrors: Most guests appreciate a good mirror, ideally full-length, in their room or in an adjacent bathroom.
Seasonal flowers: Fresh or even dried flowers, like hydrangeas, which last much longer, and add an elegant, vintage touch, say welcome. A bowl of holiday potpourri or pinecones with sprigs of pine and berries feels festive.
Welcome basket: Put one in the room filled with granola bars, nuts, water bottles, fresh apples and a few magazines.