Bonner Havens Wilder

February 20, 2013 

Bonner Havens Wilder, 71, died Monday.

Graveside service will be held 3:00 p.m. Wednesday in Greenwood Cemetery with Rev. Jane Wilson officiating. She was preceded in death by her sisters, Cookie Carstarphen, Emily Edmondson and a brother Frank Havens.

She is survived by her loving family, including husband, Billy Wilder;

daughters, Cindy Anderson, Tarboro, Ruth Holland and husband, Alan Gendreau of High Springs, FL; son, John Worsley, Jr. and wife, Susan, Grand Rapids, MI; three grandchildren; two great-grandchildren.

If desired in lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Calvary Episcopal Church or The American Cancer Society.

Arrangements are by Carlisle Funeral Home, Inc., Tarboro.

Online condolences may be directed to the family by visiting

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