First of a two-part series
When my husband stumbled out of bed in the dark and lost his balance, tearing his ear on an open drawer as he crashed to the bamboo floor, we knew our bedroom needed a makeover.
The iron bed we dubbed Princess and the Pea because its cushy mattress stood 26 inches off the floor had become unsafe for Joe, who has Parkinsons disease and dementia. The cheap dressers flanking the Princess were also a threat. They wobbled, and their drawers closed hard if at all, leaving sharp corners exposed. I feared Joes dresser might fall on him if he tried to steady himself against it.
Like many baby boomers, we were ready for a space that would be safe, comfortable and adaptable as we grow older and especially as Joes mobility declines. Falls, after all, are the leading cause of death due to injury for adults 65 and older. Joe turned 70 in April.
We called on designer Anne DeCocco of DeCocco Design in Raleigh to draw up a plan we could follow little by little as we found and could afford the right pieces.
We told her we would move an inherited wall unit to the dining room and get rid of everything else in the 13-by-16-foot space except an exercise bike. We wanted the room to echo the midcentury vibe in the rest of our townhouse. And we didnt want to go broke. With DeCoccos floor plan and furniture shopping tips, we now have a space where we expect to live for many years, safely, comfortably and independently aging in place, as the experts call it.
No. 1 was a bed that Joe could get into and out of without help, but we didnt want a hospital bed. We needed storage and good light within reach, but no sharp corners on Joes side or oversized lamps that would topple should he grab them for support. The floor plan would have to provide 3- to 4-foot pathways for his walker and perhaps a wheelchair someday. I pined for a chaise where I could snooze nearby when tremors make Joe restless, and a pretty area rug to add a luxurious feel.
DeCocco told us to forget about a large rug (Rugs are really tricky with walkers, and Id forgo any that arent necessary, she said) and a chaise, which would be too big.
Instead, a small recliner could fit into a corner, leaving room for a console or dresser, a king-size platform bed, mix-and-match nightstands, and even the exercise bike, DeCocco suggested.
We repainted the tired yellow walls with Benjamin Moores Flowering Herbs/514, a soft olive that created a neutral backdrop for a palette of cream, navy, aqua and rust. The color carries through to the adjacent bath. The eggshell finish reflects light and is scrubbable.
Our not-so-old mattress now rests on a sturdy mahogany platform. At 22 inches from the floor, the mattress is at the height considered optimal for transfer to and from a wheelchair, according to the Rehabilitation Institute of Chicago.
Joe is able to get into and out of bed more easily. With its button-tufted white leather headboard, the beds Bauhaus-inspired design had the feel we were after and no sharp edges. We bought it on sale and paid two pros to assemble it.
We chose a Riley high-leg recliner from La-Z-Boy, browsing online first, then visiting the store to order it in navy leather. The recliners chunky legs are sturdy and carry the dark wood of the platform across the space. A small chairside table is a handy spot for a magazine or cup of tea and its sparkly base repeats the chrome accents in our lamps.
To save money and get the look we were after, we brought in two vintage Heywood-Wakefield pieces won at auction a small nightstand with rounded edges for Joe and a console for our clothes and TV.
We also scored a mirrored glass nightstand for my side of the bed. Apparently a Neiman-Marcus floor sample, it was in pristine condition and roughly half price.
Our his-and-hers nightstands are the same height, but a narrower one on Joes side leaves room to keep his walker and canes at the ready. Paths on both sides of the bed are wide enough for a transport chair if needed.
Both bedside tables have drawers for storage and cubbies below. Joe uses his to stash his slippers out of his way.
Mixing and matching nightstands gives the space an informal, curated-over-time feel.
We considered wall-mounted, swing-arm lamps on both sides of the bed but ruled them out, fearing Joe might be tempted to grab them for support and hurt himself. Small lamps of chrome and crystal block shouldnt present that danger. They provide some sparkle, ample light and best of all, plug into $15 adapters that let us turn them on and off with a touch of the hand.
A $34.99 rug from a big-box store provides a warm spot for bare feet in front of the recliner and a smaller version protects the floor under the exercise bike without obstructing Joe. Both rugs have anti-skid backing.
We covered the existing wood blinds with a Roman shade. We can pull the blinds up out of the way or close them tight for privacy a must since we removed the door between the bedroom and adjoining tub-and-sink area of the bath so Joes walker would fit through the frame.
We tuck in the cream-colored silk comforter for a streamlined look and to remove tripping hazards. Two throws one hand-stitched in our accent color of aqua and a knit blanket in rust and a pair of Pottery Barn pillows carry the color scheme through the space.
Next week: A full-scale ADA renovation