Don Horton has coached 15 offensive linemen who have played in the NFL. He was once named by ESPN.com as one of the two best offensive line coaches in the United States. He gained national prominence as a longtime assistant to former N.C. State coach Tom OBrien.
Now he is an assistant coach at Ravenscroft School.
And he loves it.
I got into coaching because I wanted to have an impact on young men, Horton said recently, before going out into the rain for a Ravens practice. I hope these guys that Im coaching now will be better men because we worked together.
Horton has Parkinsons disease. He has had the chronic and progressive movement disorder for about seven years. Boxer Muhammad Ali and actor Michael J. Fox have Parkinsons, which can cause trembling hands, uncontrollable tics, stiffness, unsteadiness in walking among other things. Symptoms can worsen over time. There is no cure, and the cause of the disorder is unknown.
The disease has affected Hortons speech and his movement. Former N.C. State quarterback Russell Wilson once needed to help him button his shirt after a game.
But Parkinsons has not affected his desire to help young people.
Mike Fagan, a 6-foot-2, 320-pound tackle at Ravenscroft, said he is a better person because of Horton.
First thing, he is a remarkable coach, Fagan said. He has so much knowledge. Learning from him has been immensely profitable.
And to know what he is going through and how he is handling it is inspiring. No matter what obstacles you come up against, you shouldnt ever give up.
Horton, who has coached for 34 years, can still motivate players.
Oh yeah, when he wants you to hear something in practice he gets his point across, Fagan said. He can get pretty emotional.
Its tougher in high school to have an impact because you dont have the time, said Horton, 55. You dont meet and watch film together like you do in college. But youre still trying to do the same thing teach them the basics, the techniques and trying to have an impact on their life.
Coaching at Ravenscroft has given him the opportunity to continue doing what he has wanted to do essentially his entire life. He resigned from coaching in 2012 but continued working in football operations at State until this spring when he said he was fired less than a month after brain surgery.
Don always has wanted to be coaching kids, said Maura Horton, his wife of 20 years. I admire that. He found what he wanted to do and pursued that. He hasnt changed.
He moves more slowly now. Some physical changes seem to happen overnight. Other changes have been so gradual that he didnt realize they were happening until he noticed a major change.
The incident with the shirt button inspired Maura Horton to develop clothing that can fasten using magnets, an example of how the family has worked to adapt to Hortons condition.
I take umbrage at the term resilience, Maura Horton said. The lives of our children (daughters who are 10 and 6) have been changed forever because of Parkinsons. The lives of our children have changed for the better because they have seen how their father has faced this.
Horton wants to keep coaching football, a sport he considers the last bastion of toughness.
You get knocked down, you get up, he said. You lose, but you dont quit trying. You push yourself farther than you want to go, but you keep going. Football teaches toughness, physically and mentally.
Horton was excited when Ravenscroft coach Ned Gonet offered him a job because he believes he still has things to offer young men.
I hope hell have me back next year, Horton said.
No worries there, Gonet said.
We are honored to have such a man be associated with our program, Gonet said. Not only does he do a tremendous job with the kids, he has been great for our coaching staff.
Horton started his coaching career as a graduate assistant at New Mexico State, Ohio State and Virginia before he got his first head coaching job in 1977 at Norfolk (Va.) Catholic. He led a program that had scored 18 points the previous season to a 4-6 record. He is still in touch with some of the players there.
Joe Sparksman, a Department of Corrections probation parole officer in Raleigh who was a runner and linebacker at Norfolk Catholic, said Horton inspired him years ago and inspires him today.
He has been tough, Sparksman said. Just watching him handle everything thrown at him has been an inspiration. He was tough as a coach, but he was a coach who stressed that I was a student as well as an athlete. There was never any question that he wanted what was best for me.
Wittenberg University, Hortons alma mater, offered him a job as an assistant in 1978 and he remained in college coaching until arriving at Ravenscroft.
Horton said there has been little adjustment to teaching high school players after working for years with much bigger and stronger college players.
Its relative, he said. In college, those 6-5, 280 guys play against other 6-5, 280 guys. High school players, 6-3, 230, play against high school players about the same size. Most of the college players know they arent going to play beyond their senior year and so do the high school players. Its about the same.
And the lessons taught through athletics are the same, too.
Horton and his wife were talking about that just the other day.
Life is not always fair, but you have to keep getting up.