If youre stressed out about holiday entertaining, relax. Styles in home design are trending to simpler, more casual, more modern and that applies to the table as well.
How you entertain, of course, may be a matter of your personal style. Theres a camp thats locked in to tradition, say, for decorating the Christmas tree or setting the holiday dinner table.
Yet there are others who prefer to shake things up, who cant resist introducing something new: a tureen, a platter, napkin rings, linens just like tweaking an outfit with a fabulous new scarf.
Still another group may opt to totally refresh, like purchasing a whole new wardrobe, doing a 180, perhaps lightening up from tight formality and traditional plate patterns and going rogue with edgy or modern dinnerware punctuated by playful, whimsical touches.
While dress-up luxe looks are ever-present, especially toward Christmas and New Years Eve celebrations, theres also a less-buttoned-up approach with an emphasis on cozy and comfortable, reflected in many shelter publication features and the on the pages of retail catalogs.
In the October issue of Southern Living magazine, photographer Helen Norman showed off her own autumn table in a barn in the rolling countryside of Maryland.
This particular table setting is a good example of where consumers are now, said Southern Livings editor in chief, Lindsay Bierman. Theyre much more into the mix of high and low than older generations. Theres an interest in casual entertaining, but still a desire to have a table that reflects family tradition, (while at the same time) making it their own.
So Norman brings an unexpected palette of blue and white (her late mothers china) to her lovely fall table, a mix of rustic and refined. Its still really pretty, rooted in tradition, but it reflects her home, not just her mothers.
Vintage plates shine on a country table as well as with stark, modern dinnerware in white or the popular taupe shades of today. Some of the painterly seasonal motifs that almost appear watercolored can be striking as accent pieces. Inspiration derives from a myriad of sources, including English lodge style, with porcelain plates decoratively rimmed by a border of curving antlers at Pottery Barn.
Motifs and props
At Crate and Barrel, a snowflake motif is fired with a reactive or living glaze, which also promotes a crackling in the pattern. There are also the quirky doodlings on porcelain Oliver appetizer plates: childlike black and white sketches that show a frenzied figure juggling holiday gifts or one holding a string of jelly bean lights with strategic hues that look like pages from coloring books.
An especially fresh treatment, also on Normans table, is allowing the wood of the table to be exposed, save for a runner. Table runners nicely set off centerpieces, and these days, its popular to do multiples or an uninterrupted display scattered seemingly randomly down the center of the table rather than a single, central arrangement.
Lots of bare wood is an intentional choice meant to convey that casual feel, said Bierman. And I love combining fruit and flowers. Fruit is a really nice way to add instant color.
Consider the kind of props that layer in texture and color, such as colorful ornaments in a wide range of materials from feathers to metal to glass or woven rattan. And even if blings not your thing, a little sparkle can add magic.
Consider beaded place mats or napkin rings, even trees crafted from crystal beads, or beaded garlands threaded through a chandelier. Along with candles, theyll light up a room. By all means, use lots of candles. They add immeasurable glow and a romantic ambience to the table. Votives, pillars and tapers cohabit nicely, as well as vintage with modern.
Some of the metal finishes, especially warm golds, are emerging as new favorites in home design, and mercury glass has practically become a staple.
Playing with color
Strategic shots of coordinated color are a tabletop fashion statement. A red tablecloth may compete with your interior, but imagine pristine white, with napkins bordered in red, red glass vases filled with red and white flowers and white candlesticks with red tapers. Never boring.
Ditto with almost any hue played this way tapped as a bold accent in a neutral vignette, just as stylists draw out key colors in punching up interiors for photography. Look to nature for unexpected palette pairings. Orange and aubergine, inspired by ornamental cabbages, are rich together.
Linens, of course, can be snowy white or natural. Some have subtle patterns, such as an overlay of snowflakes on natural linen cloth that also has a silvery sheen, at Crate and Barrel. There are some fabulous prints as well as embellished solids. Beading and embroidery can dress up runners, place mats and napkins.
Add your own signature by tying napkins with ribbon, yarn, woven tape, and perhaps tucking in a sprig of greenery or a leaf. You might even decorate linens with your own borders. Or just for fun, add small jingly bells to the corners of napkins or runners.
Creative place cards
The idea of place cards might seem old-fashioned, but not if youre creative. Combine the marking with a takeaway for guests. Helen Norman simply gathers leaves from her yard and writes guest names with a gold pen. A gift box, an ornament, a pretty cellophane-wrapped container with homemade goodies are not only nice gestures, but they can be key to the table tableau. Dressing the table may well reflect how you dress for the occasion.
And that might not necessarily be Sunday best, Bierman said. But in a way, that shows your guests friends and family that youve made an extra effort. That makes the whole thing more memorable.
After all, that special hospitality and good cheer, expressed as part of the decorating ambience, as well as the warmth that comes from hosting, are what make holiday entertaining a standout an occasion to remember.