| Victoria Seals, 3 1/2, takes matters into her own hands and ties her shoes for the first time in her morning dance class. The Independently-minded girl has been focused on the task for several weeks, practicing in the car on the way to the Goddard School, an early childhood development center in Cary, NC. "For the last two weeks she wouldn't let anybody, including me, tie her shoes for her," said Allison Seals, Victoria's slightly exasperated but proud mother. "She would just push our hands away and take over." Finally, on her seventh dance class, Victoria folded and tugged the large, oversized, and easy to grasp laces on her tap shoes into a workable knot. Her dance teacher had helped her with one of the laces, but Victoria wanted to do at least one herself. "I learned!" she said. "My tap shoes are easier. Mommie taught me how to tie my shoes. I want to learn how to ride my bike good." |