Why Sara Foster Is Still Living With Ex Tommy Haas 2 Years After Split

Sara Fosterand Tommy Haas are still living together nearly two years after their split.

"It's such an interesting [thing]," Foster, 45, said during the Tuesday, June 30, episode of Kristin Cavallari's "Let's Be Honest" podcast. "I'm not dating. I mean, I'm sure he is."

Foster explained that Haas, 48, is a Florida resident and is "always on the road" because of his career as a retired tennis player. He also isn't the biggest fan of Los Angeles.

"His comfort level is being on the road," Foster continued. "We have breakfast when he's in town. We have breakfast and dinner with our kids every day. … It's not for everybody."

News broke in August 2024 that Foster and Haas had split after nearly 20 years together. They never wed but are the parents of daughters Valentina, 15, and Josephine, 10.

"There's something to be said about slowly transitioning," Foster said. "Nothing crazy happened. I think you, kind of, grow differently."

She added, "I remember, I feel like he looked at me once, and I was like, ‘Oh, he does not respect me anymore.' Once you can see someone looking at you with a certain eye, you're kind of like, ‘Oh, God.'"

Foster said there was a "collective shift" in their relationship, which eventually caused their split. Even though they're not together romantically anymore, Foster doesn't have a bad thing to say about her ex.

"This guy has got so much integrity. You will never meet anyone that has a bad thing to say about him," she said. "He has real integrity. He's not a social climber. He's not a user. He likes who he likes, doesn't care who you are. He really is a great guy."

Telling their kids became a hurdle when news of Foster and Haas' split went public before they had the chance to discuss it.

"We had never actually sat down and been like, ‘This is how it's gonna look, this is where I'm gonna live, this is where you're gonna live, this is what we're gonna do,'" she recalled. "We both, sort of, one day knew this is not what it should be anymore."

She added, "Our kids don't look at us with those eyes of, ‘This is what I hope to have one day.' And that is not good."

Overall, Foster wishes things went differently with her daughters.

"We didn't handle it the way it should be handled, so I don't even want to tell people how we handled it, because it's not how you should handle it," she said. "There's been a real beauty in doing it slowly for us."

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This story was originally published June 30, 2026 at 12:23 PM.