How remote work taught me slowmaxxing habits I'm grateful for days before becoming a first-time mom
Slowmaxxing found me before I had a word for it. When my daily commute disappeared and my mornings stopped starting with train times and traffic apps, something small but real changed in how I moved through the day. That shift, choosing sunlight over a screen and a home-cooked meal over a grabbed one, is what people online now call slowmaxxing.
The reason it matters right now is simple. Remote and hybrid work reshaped where millions of us spend our hours, and the habits we built around commuting have started to feel optional. What we do with that reclaimed time is quietly changing our health, our budgets and our attention spans.
If you’re new to the term, the idea behind slowmaxxing comes down to choosing intention over autopilot in small, everyday moments, and my own version of it started mostly by accident.
How Slowmaxxing Works When the Commute Disappears
For years my mornings were reflexive. I’d reach for my phone before my feet hit the floor, checking delays and notifications while I rushed through a routine built around leaving the house on time. Once I started working from home full-time, that reflex had nothing to attach to.
Instead of scrolling, I started stepping outside. Ten minutes of morning light before my first email felt small at first, but became the anchor of the day. Research on morning light exposure suggests it helps regulate the body’s internal clock and supports sleep and mood, which tracked with what I noticed in myself after a few weeks.
The Health Side I Didn’t Expect
The other big change happened in my kitchen, and it ended up mattering more to my health than I anticipated. I went from grabbing coffee on my way out the door and eating lunch at a desk to cooking all three meals at home.
Once cooking was actually part of my day instead of something to squeeze in around a commute, I started eating better without trying to. Meals got more balanced simply because I had the time to make them that way, and I found myself reaching for real food instead of whatever was fastest.
My cooking got noticeably better too. Skills I never had time to build, like meal prepping ahead or trying a new recipe on a weeknight, became normal instead of aspirational. It gave me a reason to slow down and actually sit for a meal, and it added up to real monthly savings on top of it. Owl Labs’ 2025 State of Hybrid Work report found daily cost savings for remote and hybrid workers compared with full-time office employees, and I felt those numbers in my own budget almost immediately.
Why the Small Swaps Matter
Slowmaxxing isn’t a rigid routine, and it isn’t about doing less. It’s about choosing what fills the small pockets of time that used to belong to a commute or a scroll session.
My breaks used to default to scrolling on my phone. Now they default to dishes, a load of laundry or a walk with my dog. None of it is dramatic, but each swap replaces something depleting with something restorative. That was a big surprise for me. The shift was less about having more free time and more about which moments I got to choose how to spend.
What Slowmaxxing Looks Like for Hybrid and In-Office Workers
I spent three years working hybrid before going fully remote, and the same principles carried into office days. The trick was protecting the commute home as a transition instead of letting it dissolve into more scrolling or work email. Ten quiet minutes of something calming on the ride back did more for my evening than any productivity hack I’ve tried.
For anyone fully in office, slowmaxxing scales down without losing the point. A five-minute pause outside before your phone comes out. One home-cooked meal a day instead of takeout. A lunch walk that doesn’t double as a phone check. These aren’t rules, but small substitutions that carry the same intention, and with return-to-office mandates picking back up at companies across the country this year, they’re worth having in your back pocket either way.
How to Start Slowmaxxing Without Overhauling Your Schedule
The easiest way in is to pick one habit, not five. Morning light is a strong starting point because it costs nothing and takes no equipment. Committing to a single home-cooked meal a day is another, especially if you tend to eat out most weekdays.
Name the habit so you can protect it. That’s the piece that surprised me most. Once these choices had a shape, they stopped being things that happened by accident and became things I could hold onto once my calendar filled back up.
Slowmaxxing as a First-Time Mom
I’m about to become a first-time mom in just a few days, and I’m more grateful than ever that I built these habits years before I needed them most. I have a feeling they’re going to help me stay present with my baby while still making room to take care of myself.
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