How has the coronavirus affected your life?

It’s a simple question, with difficult answers. The pandemic in many ways has upended anything that seems normal. Schools are closed, small businesses are struggling. Working from home is now the norm with children, pets and family members as the new coworkers. We sing when we wash our hands.

What was normal one day is no longer normal just a few days later.

So, we asked readers to keep a journal and tell us how their lives have changed.

Here you’ll find the essays, photos and videos they’ve shared. We’ll continue to help people chronicle their lives throughout the coming weeks.

If you’d like to tell us how the coronavirus has affected your life, contact Juli Leonard at jleonard@newsobserver.com or tell your story here.

WEEK 13

Ran Coble, retired director of NC Center for Public Policy Research, Raleigh, NC

Wednesday, June 10, 3:58 p.m.

Ran Coble shares his poem “Unity in Community: A Prose Poem.”

Howie Shareff, director of You Call This Yoga, Raleigh, NC

Monday, June 8, 7:11 p.m.

Lesley Richmond, owner of Mama’s Bird’s Ice Cream, Holly Springs & Raleigh, NC

Monday, June 8, 10:45 a.m.

As a small business owner, the COVID-19 pandemic has been a difficult, uncertain time. I’m the founder of Mama Bird’s Ice Cream, a local ice cream shop that started out in Holly Springs, but also has a storefront at the Morgan Street Food Hall in Raleigh. I love my business, and the spring and summer months are when it thrives; however, because of the pandemic, things have been very different this year. We enjoy having our store full of people and families, so while we’re happy to serve customers with online orders and pickup during this time, it’s a little bit sad to see the empty tables inside our store. Our employees are adjusting, too—during a normal year, come summer evenings, they’re working hard to serve a line of customers reaching out the door. Now, they take online orders and bring ice cream out on trays, with plastic gloves and sanitizing spray as part of the routine. It’s a little strange. But we’re trying to find joy, where we can.

While things might be a little quiet in our storefront right now, and we miss seeing our customers face-to-face, it’s impossible to forget the bravery of our healthcare works during this pandemic. As a result, my employees and I tried to bring our doctors and nurses a little happiness in the way that we know best: ice cream. Recently, our business donated ice cream and decorative cookies to the nurses and doctors at Duke Hospital, to thank them for serving our community. It’s just a little thing, but it’s what we have to offer—and during this crisis, I think that’s the best anyone can do. Spread a little love (and maybe a little ice cream, too).

To our friends, family, and customers out there in NC—take care! Sending love from Mama Bird’s.

WEEK 12

Janet Perez, Governor Morehead School instructional technology specialist, Raleigh, NC

Saturday, June 6, 2020

Administrators, teachers and staff from the Governor Morehead School head out across NC to deliver diplomas to their graduating seniors. This video highlights principal Matt Mescall’s team that headed West. Included are photos of seniors from the other routes and seniors who could not attend. Despite the unusual circumstances caused by COVID-19, everyone was filled with joy and gratitude.

Cansu Sarcan, manager of Vegan Community Kitchen, Apex, NC

Saturday, June 6, 8:23 a.m.

The bigger decision on either closing the restaurant or keeping it open just for take out was hard to make. Once we decided to stay open, we had to make major adjustments.

During the Corona days, we were very worried about the safety of the staff. We paid more attention to cleaning and sanitizing the area, kitchen and the tools. We kindly asked friends to look for Clorox and purchase them for us as they were not easily available.

In order to minimize exposure, we had to set up an online ordering system that allowed our customers to pay for their food order. Setting up this system was not difficult however there was a learning curve. It took some time for us to get used to handling the on-line system. Another concern we had was related to restaurant supplies.

We were pleased to have access to fresh vegetables at the farmer’s market. We continued our frequent visits there and created chef’s specials on our menu based on the availability of the produce. However, some of the key ingredients used in the restaurant appeared to be disappearing from suppliers and from specialty stores. Thus we had to find other resources. Sometimes it took us longer to locate a trustworthy company. Furthermore, once the ingredient is located, we had to purchase larger quantities for storage and spent more funds. Currently, our dining area is being used as a pantry and storage area.

We were anxious early in the pandemic, not knowing if the mandatory closures were going to affect our business for the long term. We were indecisive not knowing how much we should invest in perishable items and the quantity of food to prepare for our guests.

Closing the dining area for our customers was a heartbreaking change. We missed the interaction with our clients and the vibrant atmosphere.

Overall, being specialized in vegan Turkish food may have helped us to survive during the pandemic. We are very thankful for the most supportive customers. Their trust in us and their continuous positive encouragement kept us going. The gift card sales went up. Some private donors and sponsors ordered meals to distribute to first responders, women’s shelters and Brown Bag Ministry.

Be Safe.

Vegan Community Kitchen - Sadiye, Cansu, Deniz

Janet Perez, Governor Morehead School instructional technology specialist, Raleigh, NC

Wednesday, June 3, 11:21 a.m.

Last night, middle and high school students from our Intro to Spanish classes presented an online dramatization of Lynn Cherry’s The Great Kapok Tree (El Gran Capoquero), entirely in Spanish! That was a daring and impressive feat. Last week, Señora Sharon Bagatell, la profesora de español, sent out a link to an English version of the book to help everyone learn the characters and understand the plot. “Tuesday, June 2nd @ 7:00 P.M.” announced the flyer created in Mrs. Snyder’s computer class. The anticipation mounted as the 7:00 p.m. start time came and went. “Must be tech issues,” Mrs. Jones, our new middle school teacher texted. “Maybe a student arrived late.” I replied. At 7:09, Andrea Pearlstein, our amazing volunteer library consultant texted, “Am I in the right place?” (Yes, Andrea, you are!) At 7:16, Sundai, my sister who lives in Charlotte asked, “Did I miss it?” Finally, at 7:19 the curtains went up. (Sometimes our best plans get delayed.)

If you don’t know the book, it’s about a group of animals who stage a peaceful protest to protect their home. It’s a beautiful story, published in 1990 when there was still time to save millions of acres in the rainforest. Señora Sharon started planning this play last year, before any of us had heard of COVID-19, before any of our screens were filled with images of peaceful protests and raging riots, before any of us started getting numerous emails bringing up that difficult conversation about race… again. (Am I the only one getting these emails?)

Principal Matt Mescall’s introduction included these words:

“This student production is about the importance of diversity, advocacy and interdependency we all need to thrive. Amid the global pandemic, we must remind each other we are all in this together, and in the wake of the racial tensions across our nation, we must remember we all have more in common…. I invite you all to hear the whispers around you, to listen to their messages, and to enjoy the diversity and beauty of each other and our community.”

Through a simple 18-minute production hosted on Microsoft Teams and Facebook Live, with special effects provided by our IT department (Brian Ebeling and James Quintana), students who are blind or have limited sight gave us a great vision of the world we can create and the work we can accomplish—together. A common goal does wonders to bring us together. (So does the Arts!) The Pledge of Allegiance ends with a common goal that we are called to embrace—together:

“...liberty and justice for all.”

Yes, it’s another daring and impressive feat, but why is it so hard to teach, understand and achieve?

¿Por qué?

Bertha Bradley, fast food worker & NC Raise Up leader, Durham, NC

Tuesday, June 2, 4:24 p.m.

Howie Shareff, director of You Call This Yoga, Raleigh, NC

Monday, June 1, 12:29 p.m.

Backyard bird watching is a family and guest favorite at our home. This has served as a natural diversion from the details of our lives, to an entertaining immersion into the nuances of birds for many years. During the pandemic, we have been very stressed by radical changes in our lifestyle as we manage elders and family that are close by as well as afar.

The backyard birding has provided a continuous oasis of sounds, colors, group engagements, tussles, and humor. From a hawk landing on the feeder, doves cooing, owls hooting in response, wrens reeling songs, and crows’ guttural communications, back porch socially distanced bird watching and listening brings a smile to all.

WEEK 11

Amanda Bordeaux, small business owner, Raleigh, NC

Friday, May 29, 5:54 p.m.

I always look forward to Fridays! It means we made it through another week of this crazy season! Typically the kids and I walk to Chick-fil-A for our Friday fun day and get an ice cream treat but the weather didn’t allow for that today. I was determined not to let the rain stop us so I brought ingredients for ice cream in a bag! It was fun, quick, easy, and most importantly, yummy! These are the things I hope the kids will remember when they look back on this time in their lives one day!

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Thursday, May 28, 9:53 p.m.

Brianna Goodwin, director of operations for Robeson Co. Church & Community Center - Lumberton, NC

Thursday, May 28, 2020

Janet Perez, Governor Morehead School instructional technology specialist, Raleigh, NC

Thursday, May 28, 9:39 a.m.

Can you imagine what it is like to be a newly minted principal during a pandemic? I can, only because I have watched our principal, Matt Mescall, deal with one fallout from COVID-19 after another. Yes, teaching is challenging, but a principal has to keep up with laws and policies, hire staff, collect data, build and uphold a community of students, parents, teachers, staff and community members. Then there’s the school improvement plan, weekly staff meetings, committee meetings, admin meetings, parent communications, budget projections, purchasing requests, school maintenance/housekeeping—which during a pandemic is huge! Oh, did I mention graduation and “what are we going to do in the fall” planning? On top of this, Matt Mescall is parenting two young sons with his wife, the family he moved from Maryland to North Carolina last August. That’s a lot of newness for one year.

The other day I called him and got the message that his mailbox was full. “Poor soul!” I thought! “The phone calls never end!” Still, Mr. Matt, as our students call him, answers his phone with a smile and is always ready to listen. His willingness to listen is why Luis, one of our high school students, called Mr. Matt “the coolest principal ever!” He definitely has kept his cool (and his sense of humor) throughout this pandemic.

Sadly, when National Principals Day rolled around on May 1st, we had lost all track of time. We only knew that it was Friday, and we would get a break from online teaching. Thus, Mr. Matt’s first Principal’s Day was a dud. (My last-minute contribution was emailing an excerpt from Theodore Roosevelt’s “The Man in the Arena” speech. “It’s not the critic who counts….”)

So here’s a round of applause for Mr. Matt! Too bad Disney is closed. He definitely has earned a trip—although, as a former athletic director, he’d probably prefer a trip to the Super Bowl! For now, I’ll just imagine Mr. Matt leading his new team, our entire GMS community, in singing a round of “We’re All in This Together” (from Disney’s High School Musical II). That song reflects his upbeat, collaborative leadership style, and it even highlights a few of his favorite dance moves!

(If you don’t know the song, Mr. Matt, here’s a link: https://youtu.be/DykVJl6wr_4. Go ahead and dance! You have much to celebrate. You also have some great stories for your family and an impressive addition to your resume/CV: Principal during COVID-19!)

Howie Shareff, director of You Call This Yoga, Raleigh, NC

Wednesday, May 27, 2:54 p.m.

Keenan Harton, worker at Bland Landscaping & NC Raise Up leader, Durham, NC

Wednesday, May 27, 12:07 p.m.

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Tuesday, May 26, 2020

Howie Shareff, director of You Call This Yoga, Raleigh, NC

Tuesday, May 26, 3:43 p.m.

Anne Kepplinger, volunteer, Beaufort, NC

Tuesday, May 26, 3:35 p.m.

The garden is fab again! The water drained (that’s the point of the raised beds) and dried thank goodness!!

The ‘reopening’ is not another term for ‘throw caution to the wind’ but unfortunately, it seems some folks think this. People don’t understand the seriousness of this. One person may have the virus and get over it, but that same person may unknowingly expose their grandmother to it, who happens to give it to everyone in her social group...and people die. These poor hearts ignore medical facts and refuse to take the suggested precautions to prevent spreading COVID-19 like wearing a face-covering in public, social distancing, and deriving information about it from trustworthy medical sources.

Please - and encourage others to - wear a face covering, practice social distancing, do not be in crowds, and stay at home as much as you can.

Amanda Bordeaux, small business owner, Raleigh, NC

Monday, May 25, 11:15 a.m.

I feel so alive and connected after attending an outdoor Barre class at the Alexander YMCA taught by one of my favorite instructors, Emily Best. When it was announced that gyms couldn’t re-open in Phase 2, I understood but I felt disappointed. Thankfully the YMCA decided to get creative and offer outdoor classes! I’m so grateful for the opportunity to re-connect with this community for accountability! A huge thing I’ve been reminded of during this season has been that exercising is just as much, if not more so, for our mental health as it is for our physical health! I look forward to trying out more classes in weeks to come including Yoga, Cardio Dance, Cycle, Dance Fusion and Zumba!

WEEK 10

Amanda Bordeaux, small business owner, Raleigh, NC

Sunday, May 24, 9:00 p.m.

I feel refreshed after taking a solo road trip to Kure Beach for the day. Pre-COVID, I was a frequent traveler! The travel bug within me was eager to escape after being in Raleigh for 2 months! It was so nice to relax, read and re-connect with God as I enjoyed the beauty of His creation with the sand in my toes and the ocean breeze. While at the beach, I took some time to write out some daily declarations about God’s promises and truths to remind myself each day!

Amanda Bordeaux, small business owner, Raleigh, NC

Saturday, May 23, 3:45 p.m.

One of the things I’ve enjoyed about this season is the way it has pushed me to be creative in the ways I connect with people and has allowed me to explore some new areas of Raleigh! Although I live 10 minutes from Umstead Park, I had never discovered it’s beauty. This afternoon I met my friend Megan and she took me on one of her favorite trails - Company Mill Trail. It’s definitely not a beginner’s trail but it was a nice challenge and a great way to spend time catching up with my friend! I’ll definitely plan to spend more time at Umstead!

Christy Batts, homeschool mom & family program coordinator for Kadampa Center, Raleigh, NC

Friday, May 22, 2:36 p.m.

Brianna Goodwin, director of operations for Robeson Co. Church & Community Center - Lumberton, NC

Friday, May 22, 1:55 p.m.

To learn more about the programs at Robeson County Church & Community Center visit their website.

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Friday, May 22, 11:54 a.m.

Joe Lumbrazo, chef at Backyard Bistro, Raleigh, NC

Friday, May 22, 11:30 a.m.

Janet Perez, Governor Morehead School instructional technology specialist, Raleigh, NC

Friday, May 22, 9:32 a.m.

It’s delightful how little things can add so much sunshine to a rainy day. Yesterday afternoon I visited our school’s track meeting. It wasn’t the typical after-school meeting. It was all online. Still, Mr. Watts, our athletic director, and his dedicated assistant and former Paralympian, Mr. Joe, had the students warming-up, working out and cooling down. Students representing western, central and eastern Carolina were on the screen. (Many students did not show up, for various reasons. Maybe it was just the rain.) They did knee lifts, arm circles, shoulder raises and planks. They jogged in place on the porch, in the living room or in the bedroom. Most of all, they smiled and laughed and signed back in whenever they lost their connection.

(Did I say Mr. Joe was dedicated? He signed in from his parents’ home in Nashville. Thankfully, his mother and father are recovering from the coronavirus. After seeing the first-hand effects of COVID-19, Mr. Joe shook his head and said, “And some folks think this isn’t real!)

Usually, May is when our students attend an out-of-state track meet with other schools in the Eastern Athletic Association for the Blind (EAAB). In fact, last weekend our track team should have traveled to the Overbrook School for the Blind in Philadelphia for this year’s competition. This week they should have been showing off their medals.

The EAAB was established in 1946. Currently it includes schools in MA, NY, PA, MD, NC, VA, WV, FL. Our athletes compete in EAAB wrestling, cheerleading, goal ball and track. Too often these opportunities are not available in traditional, charter or private schools, which means our athletic department is a special group of highly-skilled coaches. (Mr. Wali and Ms. von Reyn, Mr. Joe’s wife and our school’s Math teacher, also coach the track team.) Usually their coaching styles require hand-over-hand instruction to ensure proper posture and precise technique, something that is not possible online. Yet, Mr. Joe said that he thought distance learning was making the students work harder because they had to really listen to the directions and ask good questions. I noticed this as Mr. Joe coached the students who are blind on how to adjust their iPad or iPhone and where to move their bodies until they came into view. (“Turn your phone to the other side. Right now we don’t see you; we only see the ceiling…. Ok, now take two steps back… and another step back. Now take one step to the right. That’s good. Stay there.”)

When they all came into view, it was like sunshine bursting through the dark clouds and the falling rain. Surprised by my sudden joy, I wiped a few tears from my eyes and realized just how much I missed being with our students.

That’s the connection that keeps us working hard. That’s the connection we don’t want to lose.

Howie Shareff, director of You Call This Yoga, Raleigh, NC

Friday, May 22, 2020

Amanda Bordeaux, small business owner, Raleigh, NC

Thursday, May 21, 5:30 p.m.

I had a social distance birthday visit with my friend Aurielle and her precious baby girl! We have been friends since the 2nd grade and we have shared a lot of life together! We are looking forward to a belated birthday celebration when we feel it’s safe enough to sit down at a Mexican restaurant and have unlimited chips and salsa!

Cheryl Chamblee, writer, nonprofit leader & mom, Durham, NC

Submitted Thursday, May 21, 4:27 p.m.

I’m Cheryl Chamblee, a Durham-based writer, nonprofit leader, and mother, and I can be found at onebrokenteapot.com.

On March 24, about two weeks after we had been at home except for essential needs, we were winding down our evening at home, and I realized the evenings were the hardest for me. After sundown, when my doing-of-the-things stopped, my brain would churn through uncertainty after uncertainty. That night, I wrote the first of what became my Evening Postcard series, and I sent it via my email newsletter. One photo. One short storypoem about our day during pandemic time. Anywhere from one to three minutes to read.

I’m now on Evening Postcard #53, and this series has evolved into my most intimate writing series yet. It’s my writing-while-working-and-schooling-from-home ritual, and I’m grateful that readers have made it a ritual in their evenings, too.

If you’d like to receive Evening Postcards, you can sign up for no charge at http://www.onebrokenteapot.com/postcards.

saying yes

i wonder if we are all finally settling in

just about the time everyone is thinking about venturing out

because it has been a different sort of week here

fewer screams slams sobs by a longshot

even with the rain keeping us all inside

for three days straight

and more to come.

maybe

it’s me

showing up in a different way

on a break this week

from some of my work

exercising in the mornings

making the breakfasts

getting the snacks playing the games troubleshooting the connections for online school

while my husband happens to have a week

of almost nonstop do-not-disturb these-are-important kinds of meetings.

excuse me

i am being asked for hot chocolate

right before supper

by a wet rat of a child

who has invented some sort of game with her zoom playdate

where they go do real things

like run outside in the rain

and then check back in.

i am glad i have my work

when so many are without work

but this week

i can say yes to hot chocolate

without saying

hang on a few minutes

and so

i think i will.

Nicole Skinner, NextGen NC’s regional organizing director, Asheville, NC

Thursday, May 21, 11:45 a.m.

Howie Shareff, director of You Call This Yoga, Raleigh, NC

Thursday, May 21, 8:52 a.m.

Visit You Call This Yoga’s website for more information.

Kimberly White-Snow, special education teacher East Millbrook Magnet Middle School, Raleigh, NC

Wednesday, May 20, 9:54 p.m.

I’m a Wake Co. special education teacher -- feel immensely lucky to still have a job, but it’s surely been a different time and not a vacation -- as some people might (hopefully not!) think...But we’ve worked hard to make it work, for all levels of students and it’s awesome to see them in class online!

Wake Co. has done amazing at having meals available for kids, I know I’ve read about many restaurants helping to support health care workers, Meals on Wheels has made adjustments, churches have sponsored food drives -- so many need assistance and so many have stepped up to help -- to say I was ‘floored’ would be putting it mildly -- to see the offer of a meal for teachers provided by Irregardless Cafe!! I believe they served over 150 meals to many appreciative, hard-working teachers!!! Hats off to them!! We were nourished in a most delicious way!

Julie Hafer, esthetician & owner of Beauty Ethics, Raleigh, NC

Wednesday, May 20, 11:26 p.m.

I’ve been an esthetician for over 15 years, and a makeup artist for over 20. I’ve worked hands-on with people for so long and enjoyed it so much. This pandemic has thrown me for a loop. I have a connective tissue disorder, an autoimmune disorder, and reactive airway disease. My health always feels tenuous, but now I feel particularly vulnerable. It’s sad to think this is probably the end of my providing in-person services.

My life revolves around my business, and my clients have become like a second family to me. The problem is, I’ve already spent thousands of dollars this year in out-of-pocket medical expenses even before the virus (and I have “good” insurance). From my current perspective, I can’t afford to take the risk of exposure. So many people with health conditions are having to make life or death decisions when it comes to work.

I have to remind myself to stay positive because I know my situation could be worse. Quarantine time has at least allowed me to catch my breath and get some perspective on how far the business has come over the past ten years. We’ve grown a lot, and even developed our own product line, designed specifically for sensitive, breakout-prone skin. We have options for all skin types though – 14 products in total. I’m so proud of it. We’ve recently updated formulas and rebranded, and we’re now in the process of figuring out how to promote it more widely.

I’ve decided my new role in the company will be more of a marketing role. It was so easy before because I could demonstrate the products when people came in for their facials. Now I realize in order to grow the brand I need to be better at social media so we can expand our reach. As an introvert, that’s outside my comfort zone. I love working with people individually, but communicating to a larger audience makes me nervous. My career has been devoted to instilling confidence in others. I guess now it’s time to get some of my own, and get over my Instagram fears.

These last few weeks I’ve also stayed busy doing virtual FaceTime and Zoom appointments and getting to see clients that way. People have been so pleasantly surprised that they can do their own facials and brows and makeup—and well!—with some guidance. I’ll continue doing those because it’s so much fun, and I’ll continue to consult with clients over email, but I understand the majority probably won’t want to continue the DIY approach with me forever. Direct human connection, and the relaxation you get at a salon or spa, can’t be replaced.

I work with three other wonderful estheticians. The shutdown is lifted for salons and spas as of today, but we’re going to wait until at least June 1. We are all germaphobes, and since we have a skincare lab we are used to strict sanitation procedures already. But we’ll enhance them greatly, follow the strictest guidelines, and do our best to keep everyone as safe as possible. Life will continue, our business will continue. But I don’t imagine it will ever be the same.

Everyone wants to feel better. I hope things will rebound and the uncertainty will lift, and I hope people book with me online and keep up with me in the virtual world for their brows, makeup and facials if they’re self-isolating, too. We all could use a boost. And sometimes, it’s the little things, like a new look, that gives you that boost.

You can visit Julie’s business online at Beauty Ethics.

Nichole Visnesky, recent graduate at WCU, intern & community mental health assistant, Cullowhee, NC

Wednesday, May 20, 2:22 p.m.

Anne Kepplinger, volunteer, Beaufort, NC

Wednesday, May 20, 12:59 p.m.

Last night we ate fresh greens from the garden! The thing that looks like a brick is some bread I baked, it tastes better than it looks!!!

This morning I took some pics of the yard...at least the mosquitoes are happy..thank you tropical storm Arthur. There is a drainage ditch beyond the trees that are behind the raised beds so hopefully, the lake will become a garden again...all we can do at this point is hope for sunshine. I have been freaking out because...it is impossible for me to understand why people are fighting not to protect others - and themselves -by wearing face coverings in public until there is a medically proven vaccine - which can take years.

Wanda Coker, Burger King worker & NC Raise Up leader, Fayetteville, NC

Wednesday, May 20, 9:42 a.m.

Tom Rohweder & Martina Brooks, Gateway Restaurant, Raleigh, NC

Tuesday, May 19, 2020

In 1985, Hans Rohweder became the sole owner of Gateway Restaurant. Shortly thereafter, Hans introduced 18-year-old Thomas and 16-year-old Martina to the restaurant business. Trudy joined the rest of the family sometime later, operating the register.

In 2000, when Hans and Trudy decided to “retire” (they both continued to work in the restaurant until 2014), it was apparent that Thomas and Martina were the obvious choice to take over the Rohweder legacy. Gateway has truly been a family business in every sense of the word. Kyle, Austin and Paulie were the next generations raised here.

Customers who came for their first breakfast or lunch returned again and again until they become friends and “Gateway family.” Known for comfort food in abundance it was a great place to start the day or enjoy a lunch break. For many people, Gateway has been a home away from home, “where everybody knows your name”, a place to relax and a haven for hugs and humor.

The “Gateway Family” stuck together during the recent major renovation, scrambling for a place to park and dodging construction debris in order to continue the daily or weekly ritual of good food and family fellowship.

On March 17, 2020, Gateway closed its doors temporarily in accordance with the COVID-19 Stay-At-Home Order. Now, two months later, our world has forever changed. A reopening of restaurants is anticipated soon. Evaluating what the new normal is going to look like has been heartbreaking. Having worked tirelessly for years, we have thought long and hard about how to bring our team safely back to work.

The time has come to make a decision which will assure the well-being of our employees as well as our customers. With that in mind, we are at peace with our decision to close Gateway’s doors, knowing that new doors will open for all of us. Thank you to each of you who have supported us the last 35 years.

Much Love, Martina & Thomas

Tuhina Pant, IT, Cary, NC

Tuesday, May 19, 5:29 p.m.

This is regarding a beautiful gesture by Ms. Hattie Ayscue a sophomore at GHHS class of 2022 and her mom Ms. Rachael Ayscue, which has touched the graduating seniors at GHHS and their families. As we all know, graduating seniors of class of 2020 are missing out on a lot of milestones. It’s sad but these are unprecedented times. What’s remarkable about the current times is the goodwill spread by some very kindhearted people and two such people are Ms. Hattie and Ms. Rachael. This mom-daughter duo made chalk art on the traffic circle at GHHS and than wrote the names of all 714 graduating seniors to spread some much-needed cheer. Soon the news spread and so many seniors and families came to have a look and were deeply touched by this beautiful gesture. I am the mom of a senior and when I saw it, I was very emotional and wanted to share the story of this young girl whose idea touched so many of us.

Howie Shareff, director of You Call This Yoga, Raleigh, NC

Tuesday, May 19, 12:08 p.m.

Rebecca Barrett, homecare worker, La Grange, NC

Tuesday, May 19, 9:17 a.m.

Anne Kepplinger, volunteer, Beaufort, NC

Monday, May 18, 6:36 p.m.

It’s another Monday...18 May...35 confirmed cases and 3 deaths in Carteret County to date.

As far as the garden goes, today was not very productive...It rained on and off all day. [Thank you Tropical Storm Arthur; Rain is good, but thankfully you are far enough off of the coast that we do not have to worry about evacuating in this mess(Covid-19)]...

Today I did some research (to take my mind off of my parents, son, siblings, nieces, nephews, neighbors, and a few other friends) about herbs...Rosemary, lavender, and mint repel mosquitoes...which will be very nice because in the summer months, they are vicious here!!! Sage makes good bug repellent. Dill is great near squash and tomatoes to deter harmful insects, as do basil and thyme when planted near tomatoes...Oregano near peppers, and chives near carrots. We need to order a few more things!!! The neem oil arrived yesterday and when it stops raining every few hours - maybe tomorrow - we will apply it!!! We will also plant the rosemary we have in the hole I dug today, during a sunny moment! Sometimes I wonder why there are so many people that ignore the Centers for Disease Control, and listen to people with NO MEDICAL KNOWLEDGE and OBVIOUS ISSUES....but I remind myself of my hope that people are not THAT stupid...Like the reopening efforts, gardening cannot be rushed - or everything will die...

Stay home. Wear a face covering. Wash your hands. Take care of others...and yourself.

Janet Perez, Governor Morehead School instructional technology specialist, Raleigh, NC

Monday, May 18, 4:13 p.m.

“Am I my brother’s keeper?”

Have you heard that question before? Does it apply during COVID-19 when the push to reopen our economy grows louder and bolder? There are so many unanswered questions about this virus. Yet, every day, health care and family care workers are providing shining examples of what it means to say, “Yes, I am my brother’s keeper!”

My mother worked as a CNA in nursing homes for most of my life. So I know the pay is not great, and the work is not easy. Five years ago, I learned how hard caregiving was when my mother came to live with me due to a diagnosis of dementia, Over time, caring for my mother became frightening. She began to wander. The first time she was found two miles away from home, incredible for a woman who resisted walking around our neighborhood circle. Trying to juggle my mother’s needs with my teaching responsibilities almost drove me insane. I still had lessons to plan, classes to teach…work to do. I thought about checking myself into a mental health facility. I thought about it often. “At least then I’d get a break,” I reasoned. (That’s why my heart goes out to anyone caring for a loved one with dementia during COVID-19.) Thankfully, I had Family Leave, an understanding principal (Thank you, Kelly Davis!) and enough leave time to keep a steady paycheck. Thankfully, I found SarahCare Adult Day Care in Raleigh. Marcia Jarrell and her staff were not only amazing; they were essential to my mother’s well-being and my own.

Although my mother died last June, it is taking me forever to transform her bedroom into a different living space. Mother’s Day weekend, I gathered up some items that kept my mother’s brain active: nostalgic puzzles, laminated word searches, magic painting books (which she loved). Last Friday I dropped the items off at SarahCare. Once again I thanked Marcia and her staff for keeping my mother safe, active and smiling. Marcia shared that when news of COVID-19 hit, she and her staff knew they had to continue serving families. She said, “The reason we were determined to stay open is because our families need us! We know what it’s like to take care of somebody…. So we’ve done everything that we possibly could to minimize exposure risk.” Marcia shared that she had to furlough half her staff. She quickly added that she is bringing all of them back, “as soon as it is safe to do so.”

That’s the time we all want, the time when it is safe to fully reopen our communities, our businesses, our schools. Yet, there is still so much we need to learn about COVID-19. One thing we do know is that our neighbors who are on the front line providing essential care and services need more than our appreciation. They need our support and cooperation. Is wearing a mask too much to ask? Or is it a simple (and essential) way we all can help keep a brother, a mother or a neighbor safe?

Brook van der Linde, lead storyteller & communications at Haywood Street Congregation, Asheville, NC

Monday, May 18, 11:41 a.m.

Cornbread is a loved member of the Haywood Street community; known for singing us into service every Wednesday and Sunday. We’ve seen him at a couple of our outdoor, community meals, but that’s about it. This is the story for so many of our Friends at the moment. We are, to one degree or another, experiencing dis-connection. And for a ministry based on relationship, this is completely disorienting. If we did not know the extend of our inter-connectedness before, we know it, profoundly, now. We need to hear Cornbread singing the blues as much as Cornbread needs to sing them. Some of our friends need a dignified eating experience as much as others need to prepare the food and arrange the flowers that adorn our tables. Our hungers vary, but we all have them.

Our focus from mid-March until now has been feeding the masses and sheltering the most vulnerable. With systems now in place to do both of these, we are beginning to turn some of our attention to online worship services, creative ways of re-opening our clothing closet and, perhaps most importantly, ways of being with.

To read a longer essay about Cornbread, who came to Haywood Street Congregation through their housing respite for homeless adults, click here.

WEEK 9

Amanda Bordeaux, small business owner, Raleigh, NC

Sunday, May 17, 2020

5:45 p.m.: My dad and I enjoyed a 20-mile bike ride on the greenway. Favorite part: spending time with my dad. Least favorite part: seeing a snake!

10:20 p.m.: I can’t sleep. The question of “Will my small business make a comeback from this economic setback?” keeps circling my mind. I’m choosing to surrender these thoughts and concerns to God. He gave me the idea for this business back in 2004 and He has sustained it for this long. I trust that God will bring it back around in His perfect timing or He will have other plans for me. I know I can trust Him.

Howie Shareff, director of You Call This Yoga, Raleigh, NC

Saturday, May 16, 1:15 p.m.

To learn more about You Call This Yoga and future events, visit their Facebook page.

Amanda Bordeaux, small business owner, Raleigh, NC

Saturday, May 16, 2020

11:44 a.m.: I just dropped off some kids’ artwork at Waltonwood Assisted Living Facility. Since the residents aren’t able to have any visitors to brighten their days, hopefully this colorful artwork will help! Plus, making the artwork was a way to provide the kids with a tangible opportunity to help others during this time!

5:00 pm: I spent the last three hours relaxing at Dorothea Dix Park and savoring a book that came highly recommended from a few friends, “The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry.” It’s such a good reminder that God made human “beings” not human “doings.” We weren’t made to be busy and feel rushed and hurried. Before COVID, my life was pretty packed and hurried. For the past two months, I’ve been forced to slow down since most of my commitments and trips have been canceled. Reading this book has made me evaluate how I want my life to be less hurried when things go back to “normal.” I want to be more present and savor the moments.

6:55 pm: After going to four different stores, I still don’t have toilet paper. Maybe my mom will be generous again and share a few rolls with me!

Lamont Perry, laid-off restaurant worker, Durham, NC

Friday, May 15, 12:22 p.m.

Amanda Bordeaux, small business owner, Raleigh, NC

Friday, May 15, 2020

7:34 a.m.: I received a text message from my friend Cameron that read “Sweet treat drop off on your front porch! Happy Friday!!” I opened the door to find a Bojangles Bo Berry biscuit and the sweetest note! So unexpected and thoughtful! I truly have the best friends in the world!! What a great way to start my day!

11:17 a.m.: Just finished a Deck of Cards workout in the park with a 10-year-old as my coach. He didn’t go easy on me! I love finding fun, creative ways to exercise during this time, although I will be so happy when the YMCA is able to open up again! I miss the community, the group fitness classes, and my instructors!

3:45 p.m.: Fridays have been deemed “fun Fridays!” Since the weather was gorgeous we were able to walk to Chick-fil-A for an ice cream treat! We even brought our own toppings to make it extra special! I hope the kids will look back at this time and remember our fun adventures together!

8:15 p.m.: I enjoyed a picnic dinner with friends, Leah, Jenny and Stephanie, at Fred Fletcher Park. It was so nice to catch up with them. We literally chatted until the sun went down! I’m so thankful that I’ve been able to find creative ways to spend time with friends during this time.

Faith Nicholson Garcia, Amazon worker, Durham, NC

Thursday, May 14, 9:48 a.m.

Linda Brandariz, Wal-Mart worker, Chapel Hill, NC

Thursday, May 14, 8:00 a.m.

Amanda Bordeaux, small business owner, Raleigh, NC

Thursday, May 14, 2020

7:55 a.m.: My alarm clock went off 10 minutes ago and I’m still in bed. I’ve never been a “jump out of bed” girl. I prefer to snooze a few times and wake up slowly. I try to start my day with my focus on God. This morning I meditated on one of my favorite Bible verses from the book of Psalms: “This is the day that the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad in it.” It reminds me to be grateful and joyful for the blessing of another day. I also try to start my day with prayer. During this season I’ve been focusing on praying for those who have COVID and for the doctors and nurses to have strength and stamina to care for their patients.

4:00 p.m.: I’m heading out to Wake Forest to meet my dear college friend, Nicole, for a social distance walk at a park. I’m going to surprise her with some homemade chocolate chip cookies! Giving little gifts to others fills me with joy!

7:15 p.m.: I enjoyed eating dinner and visiting with another sweet college friend, Ebony, and her cute daughter, Emmy! We don’t live close and we are in different seasons of life but we have both been intentional with keeping in touch. I treasure time spent with her!

Amanda Bordeaux, small business owner, Raleigh, NC

Wednesday, May 13, 2020

11:19 a.m.: The 1st-grade girls I’m babysitting are currently on a Google Meet call with their teacher and classmates! The teachers at Wiley Elementary School are dedicated to holding weekly check-ins and they have done a phenomenal job of setting up online work for the students to complete each week. I’m really impressed and I’m very grateful for their hard work, time and effort which made the transition to online learning successful!

3:25 p.m.: Just finished an intense game of Scrabble with the 10-year-old boy I’m babysitting. We wanted to shake things up from the traditional way to play and decided we could only make three letter words. We had to make up a few new rules as we played! I love playing educational games with kids while also allowing them (and myself!) to have fun!

7:37 p.m.: I “saw” my high school girls from church via a Group FaceTime! For the past 12 years, I have led a high school bible study small group through Hope Community Church. We provide a safe space for students to hang out, play games, laugh, connect with other students, ask trusted adults questions, and learn more about God. This week marks two months since I have hugged them. Although I’m so grateful for technology and ways to stay connected, I miss them. I’ve been sending them mail every few weeks to remind them how much I love and care about them! I can’t wait until the day when we can meet up again!

Eshawney Gaston, homecare worker, Durham, NC

Wednesday, May 13, 2:37 p.m.

Amanda Bordeaux, small business owner, Raleigh, NC

Tuesday, May 12, 2020

4:17 pm: I had a quick social distance visit with my friend, Mrs. Frances who lives alone. She was excited to see me and for the homemade cookies, I shared with her.

4:41 pm: My mom just saved the day by dropping off two rolls of toilet paper! I was running low and didn’t want to go to the store this week more than necessary to eliminate COVID exposure so she came to the rescue!

6:27 pm: I enjoyed a bike ride on the greenway with friends, Alyson and Cameron. I am much more successful at pushing myself to exercise if I have accountability!

8:30 pm: I had a few friends over on my back porch for a social distance Mexican fiesta. Any time spent with them is a party! We can laugh together but we can also have deep conversations. Meeting up with these dear friends each week has helped my mental sanity tremendously during this time!

Nicole Skinner, NextGen NC’s regional organizing director, Asheville, NC

Tuesday, May 12, 2020

Howie Shareff, director of You Call This Yoga, Raleigh, NC

Tuesday, May 12, 2:26 p.m.

Visit You Call This Yoga’s website for more information and learn more about their free YogaZoomFest May 16-17th here.

Denitra Ledwell, CNA & NC Raise Up member, Durham, NC

Tuesday, May 12, 2:24 p.m.

Janet Perez, Governor Morehead School instructional technology specialist, Raleigh, NC

Tuesday, May 12, 12:52 p.m.

Staying positive during a pandemic isn’t easy. Reading motivational writings has helped. James Clear (author of Atomic Habits) sends out a 3-2-1 weekly newsletter. It’s a quick read that inspires deeper thought: 3 ideas, 2 quotes, 1 question. Here’s a recent question: “What does this make possible? Clear calls it “[a] simple question that may help reveal the positive side of the current moment.”

What does this, COVID-19, make possible? What is the positive side of this current moment, when thousands are dying and millions are losing their jobs?

Yesterday, without ever hearing Clear’s simple question, Laura Wooten, the Student Life Director at GMS sent me an inspiring answer. Mrs. Wooten wrote, “If I had to pull a positive out of the COVID-19 Pandemic, it forced my wonderful team to think outside the box…When the Governor encouraged State agencies to offer work from home opportunities, my wheels started turning-how can we make that work for my team? Traditionally, a residential program is not viewed as a class of employees to work from home, but I knew with the talents and strengths of the Student Life team-it could definitely work. The team embraced the idea and took off…Now over two months into the teleworking experience, I am as proud as a peacock.”

Our Student Life team serve as liaisons between school and home. They create a caring home environment for students living away from their families. We are talking mealtimes, homework habits, social activities, personal care, emotional support. Within each area, there are a multitude of skills and adaptive techniques that students who have low-vision or blindness must learn, common tasks that people with sight take for granted. These skills are part of the Expanded Core Curriculum (ECC) and are as essential as the academic subjects we teach. In fact, ECC skills are a main reason students choose to attend our residential school. It’s one thing to have the academic skills needed to land a job, but how will you live an independent life that allows you to keep a job? Can you get your clothes ready—including doing your laundry? Can you dress appropriately, including coordinating colors? Maintain a clean living environment? (Let’s start with making your bed.) Shop? Cook? Handle your money? Get to work on time….all without the use of sight?

Yes, our Student Life team is essential, too essential to let go during COVID-19 when they are reaching students that teachers could not, supporting ECC skills in the home, maintaining social-emotional connections, attending IEP meetings, learning new techniques and technologies. Yes, Mrs. Wooten has many reasons to feel proud!

Yesterday, I ventured over to the B2 Cottage on campus. Teams were coming in to pack up personal items that the students left behind. Mrs. Sampson, the team leader, expressed sadness at the thought of not knowing when she would see her students again. Then she shared a positive moment. “Families are getting to see what their kids are really capable of doing and are excited!” she said. “The usual weekend visits were never long enough for students to show all they could do.” Mrs. Sampson’s comment made everyone smile (behind masks), a shared sense of accomplishment, the result of their willingness to think outside of the box.

Then we walked inside. There was a slight pause as we noticed the calendar on the wall: March 2020. A moment that seemed so far away and yet like yesterday.

This Saturday, May 16th, the buses will head out, again, all across the state. This time, instead of carrying students, the buses will carry the boxes packed by our Student Life team, boxes filled with personal belongings and mixed emotions. Boxes packed with something COVID-19 will never take away: Love and Hope!

Carrie McQuaid, motivational speaker, Raleigh, NC

Shared Tuesday, May 12, but proposal was made April 19, 2020

I dated a guy long distance for a year and knew we’d likely get engaged and married in 2020. But then, of course, COVID-19 hit and we put all of our plans on hold. However, he was secretly working behind my back on a secret proposal. He asked my friends to sing parts of Taylor Swift’s “Love Story” (my absolute favorite song) and then pieced it altogether since most of them couldn’t be there in person. He drove to North Carolina and had my roommates take me out for ice cream, and then hid in my backyard and surprised me when I got home.

Amanda Bordeaux, small business owner, Raleigh, NC

Monday, May 11, 2020

5:00 pm: I’m getting ready to meet my sweet friend Rachael and her daughters for a social distance greenway walk. We instantly connected when we met through Hope Community Church 12 years ago and we’ve been inseparable ever since! We were roommates for a few years and we will be friends for a lifetime! Before COVID, we would meet up at least once a week for lunch or a Starbucks date. She recently had a baby so I loved snuggling her each time we met up. Unfortunately, as a result of COVID, I haven’t been able to hold her since March which has been heartbreaking for me! Thankfully even getting to see her smiles and hear her coos still bring me joy!

7:18 pm: I was able to support my favorite local pizza joint tonight, Lilly’s Pizza, and enjoyed a picnic with my friend Cindy at Fred Fletcher Park. It was nice to be outside and catch up with her. For the past few months, we’ve been trying to meet up once a week which allows us to stay connected and gives both of us something to look forward to each week!

Anne Kepplinger, volunteer, Beaufort, NC

Monday, May 11, 4:43 p.m.

Apparently, there are red aphids on the tomato plants, and though I did not see them, the boyfriend did, thankfully! He alerted me to the fact that they (red aphids) are enjoying the garden too! We ordered some neem oil to protect our young plants from these pests, but it has yet to arrive. So in a spray bottle, he quickly mixed some water and Dawn dishwashing liquid because it exterminates aphids on contact. (Tough on greasy dishes, gentle enough to clean wildlife after an oil spill, and a non-toxic aphid killer too!)

In nature; lady bugs, ants, and praying mantises love to consume aphids...I wish there was such an easy solution to Covid-19. It disturbs me to no end that people are treating this pandemic like some kind of bug...it is not.

And there is no vaccine. As statistics from around the world show, this virus is A very big deal...

WEEK 8

Nichole Visnesky, senior at WCU, intern & community mental health assistant, Cullowhee, NC

Sunday, May 10, 4:45 p.m.

Amanda Bordeaux, small business owner, Raleigh, NC

Sunday, May 10, 2020

8:27 am: I texted my mama to tell her Happy Mother’s Day. I’m so grateful to have such a kind, loving, caring mama! I’m thankful that I live nearby so I get to see her fairly often.

9:30 am: I arrived at New Hope Baptist Church 30 minutes before the drive-in service began so I could get a spot on the front row! The pastor asked us to say hello by honking our horns! I was able to stand up and look out of my sunroof during the service. It was encouraging to sing uplifting worship songs and hear a positive message from the pastor which was taken from the book of Acts in the Bible. I felt hopeful and joyful after the service.

3:17 pm: I had a very enjoyable outdoor social distance Mother’s Day lunch with my parents and my grandma, followed by a game of Skipbo (my mama’s favorite!) which she won and a game of Scrabble where I dominated!

6:08 pm: My daddy and I just finished a 10-mile bike ride on the greenway! It has been nice to have frequent, lengthy bike rides with my daddy over the last few weeks due to the fact that I don’t have such a busy schedule like I did before COVID-19. I’m grateful for time with him doing something we both enjoy!

8:47 pm: Cooking + baking are a few of the ways I’ve been spending extra time these days. I tried making dark chocolate chip cookies. They didn’t look pretty but they tasted yummy! I’ll take some to my friend tomorrow for her birthday and I’ll share some with Mrs. Frances, my 89-year-old friend who lives alone. I’ve tried to check-in and visit her as often as I’m able during this pandemic.

9:52 pm: I just finished printing Personal Computer Time (PCT) Logs for the kids I’m babysitting. I implemented this system last week in an effort to teach the kids about making choices, responsibility, self-discipline, planning, and time management. They get 5 hours/week of PCT and they can use it whenever they choose as long as their schoolwork has been completed. Week 1 of implementing this system went fairly well so I’m hopeful it will be successful this week too.

10:34 pm: Before heading to bed I wrote in my gratitude journal. I’ve tried to be intentional in having a gratitude practice since 2004 when my mentor, Tara Russell, encouraged me to “focus on the haves, not the have nots” during my 2-month mission trip to Bangkok, Thailand. I keep a small notebook by my bed and jot down a few things that I’m grateful for - most of which are little things. A few of the entries from tonight included the gorgeous weather, the smell of honeysuckles, a hot shower, my back porch and receiving a letter in the mail. It’s a great way to end my day with a heart of gratitude, thanking God for all of the little blessings in my life that He has given me.

It has been a wonderful weekend and I feel rested, recharged and ready to take on another week! Some things I’m looking forward to this week: walking at Lake Johnson and getting take out Lilly’s Pizza with my friend Cindy, a social distance birthday visit with my friend Katie, a social distance picnic with my friends Kada and Macy, FaceTiming with my friend Elizabeth to see her baby’s nursery, a bike ride on the greenway with my friends Alyson and Cameron, a walk with my friend Nicole and a social distance dinner with my friend Ebony! It’s going to be a great week!

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Saturday, May 9, 2020

Amanda Bordeaux, small business owner, Raleigh, NC

Saturday, May 9, 2020

2:45 pm: I just attended a baby shower via Zoom! That was a first! Instead of canceling her shower that was scheduled for today, the hosts turned it into a virtual baby shower! We shared why we loved our friend Ashley, she opened some gifts and we played “guess the song.” Part of the lyrics of each song had the word “babe” or “baby” and the winner got a Starbucks gift card! Of course, it wasn’t the same as being in-person but we were still able to love and celebrate our friend and her sweet baby boy!

4:32 pm: I just finished my weekly grocery run for my parents and grandma and delivered their groceries. They were both very generous with their tips! Little did I realize grocery delivery would be a side job for me every Saturday!

Anne Kepplinger, volunteer, Beaufort, NC

Saturday, May 9, 11:25 a.m.

I finally talked him into letting me plant blueberries!!! Yesterday morning, before boyfriend awakened, I cleared a spot of grass to plant...apparently he did not think the light would be okay in that spot, so we dug another! We then planted it...first, we put our neighbor’s special root establishing fertilizer mix (a liquid), and after transplanting the blueberry bush, we put cardboard around it to prevent weeds. Then we covered the cardboard with topsoil, and water. (Another neighbor and his wife are master gardeners and they have a number of types of blueberries...Hopefully, we can get cuttings and plant two more types of blueberry beside it - for a better and continual harvest.)

Last night for supper, I cut some leaves of bok choy for boyfriend to fix!!! (I tasted some when I picked it and it was grand!) - And you can see the lettuce sprouting...I worry about people who are not concerned with the virus.. My family (in Raleigh/Chapel Hill area) IS...and for this I am most thankful!!. But maybe, just maybe, people will think...and NOT go out unless they WEAR A FACE MASK... And please everybody, remember, there are many who are not surrounded by family and friends, at this time. Check on them remotely if you can...Stay safe.

Nichole Visnesky, senior at WCU, intern & community mental health assistant, Cullowhee, NC

Friday, May 8, 6:45 p.m.

Trevor Gates, junior at WCU & volunteer for Down Home NC, Cullowhee, NC

Friday, May 8, 3:50 p.m.

Bill Smith, former chef at Crook’s Corner, Chapel Hill, NC

Friday, May 8, 2020

Amanda Bordeaux, small business owner, Raleigh, NC

Friday, May 8, 12:19 a.m.

Thursday, May 7th

5:15 pm: I dropped off a balloon and some goodies for a high school student from my church who recently had back surgery. It felt good to do something for someone else; it brightened her day and mine!

6:45 pm: I enjoyed a 6-mile bike ride on the greenway with my friend Alyson. It felt so nice to be outside in this gorgeous spring weather and exercise my body. It made me feel grateful for my health and ability to ride a bike and for the availability of the beautiful greenway.

9:30 pm: I just finished a Zoom Book Club with some amazing women, many of whom I just met virtually 7 weeks ago. My friend Nicole had posted on Facebook that she was going to host a Book Club every Thursday night for the book, “Get Out of Your Head.” I quickly messaged her saying I wanted to join. I already had the book and had been wanting to read it so this gave me the accountability I needed, plus it would give me something to look forward to each week. I’m so glad I joined. We have been able to share what we are learning and support and pray for each other.

11:00: I watched the 7th episode of Little Fires Everywhere on HULU. I would have watched the 8th one too but I need to get some sleep so I’ll have energy for the kids tomorrow!

I’m so glad tomorrow is Friday! I’ve almost made it though another week. I have deemed Friday “fun Friday” for the kids I’m homeschooling/babysitting (and for myself!) If the weather is nice, we walk to Chick-fil-A in Cameron Village for ice cream!

Friday nights are take-out nights! My roommates and I typically pick up dinner, go to a park for a picnic and watch a movie at home afterwards. It’s a nice way for us to end the week by spending time together and it gives us something to look forward to each week!

On Saturday afternoon I have a virtual baby shower for my friend Ashley whose baby is due in July. I’m hoping by the time her baby arrives, COVID-19 will be at bay and I can meet her baby boy!

On Sunday morning I’ll be attending a drive-in worship service at New Hope Baptist Church in Raleigh. I’m looking forward to singing worship songs with other Christians and hearing an encouraging message from Pastor Randy. My faith in Jesus has kept me grounded and hopeful during this season as I choose to trust and believe that God is in control. I know He is good, He is Sovereign and His plans are better than mine. I have to remind myself of this often!

Sunday afternoon I’ll have a social distance lunch on my grandma’s back porch along with my parents to celebrate Mother’s Day. It feels very bizarre that I won’t be able to hug my mom. Sometimes I forget we are in the midst of a pandemic but when I can’t do the normal things I am accustomed to doing like hugging my parents and my grandma due to social distancing, I’m reminded that what we are experiencing is far from normal.

On Monday I’m looking forward to surprising a friend with balloons, a gift and a milkshake for her 30th birthday! Celebrating birthdays and mailing birthday cards during this time has helped bring me joy and hopefully bring joy to others as well! We could all use more joy, especially during this time!

Steve Durant, disabled Navy veteran, Wake Forest, NC

Thursday, May 7, 2:05 p.m.

I am a disabled Navy veteran and had my immune system blow up from taking chloroquine while in Somalia, leaving me with Lupus, Sjogren’s syndrome and a bunch of medical problems.Years later, I was put on Hydroxychloroquine which caused liver and kidney failure, body rash and a very high fever.

Having been stationed in Bremerton, Wash., I still listen to Seattle KIRO radio while working in the garage and heard when the announcement was first made about the Kirkland Nursing Home. I knew it was just a matter of time before it spread.

We went into what I call our CBR mode: Chemical, Biological and Radioactive response mode. Using the same chemical attack training I had in the Navy, we adjusted our way of life. All purchased items, mail and packages are going into the decon station in the garage. That means they sit for at least 24 hours before using.

When 6-foot social distancing was introduced, I started telling people near me -- those who weren’t wearing masks -- that 10 feet is the new 6 feet, and to step away. I was wearing my mask in stores about two weeks before it was advised by the CDC to do so. I was hoping to send a lead-by-example message in public for others to follow, but sadly, too many people were in, and still are in, denial.

During the pandemic I have been working on our house being built -- I do trim carpentry -- gardening, including pulling out a Halloween scarecrow I built and re-purposing him for walkers to enjoy. I have also detailed my cars. My other hobby is baking and I enjoy making pies. I made hand pies to give away. I took second place at the California State Fair in 2018 with my apple pie! Drawing is something I wanted to learn to do, so I watched YouTube to learn how. I also learned how to be a trim carpenter from lessons on YouTube.

My wife has been hit hard by this. Lupus has almost taken my life twice, so she is very afraid for me, more so then I am.

Janet Perez, Governor Morehead School instructional technology specialist, Raleigh, NC

Thursday, May 7, 10:30 a.m.

COVID-19 became real for me on Tuesday, March 31st. Our teaching staff had just concluded an upbeat online meeting. We laughed, shared ideas, raised questions and tweaked our school’s distance learning plan. Spring Break was three days away. Then, at 12:12 p.m., the staff received an email from William Tubilleja, William teaches Orientation & Mobility skills which involves teaching students cane skills and how to navigate their environment, i.e. know where you are, where you want to go and how you are going to get there. On this day, with his words, William taught us how to navigate COVID-19. He wrote:

“Hi everyone, I didn’t want to bring this up during the recent meetings as to not be a distraction. My older brother…who lives in Las Vegas, has been diagnosed with COVID-19. He works as a medical x-ray technician and likely got infected at work….he is still in ICU and will probably be there for some time….”

Prayers and encouraging words followed. Then our guards came down and real sharing began. We read news of a brother and then of an uncle. Later we learned that the brother recovered. The uncle did not. This Tuesday a wife’s first-cousin died, and a set of parents suffered downed trees and the loss of power while both are fighting to breathe in Tennessee, miles away from their son and his wife, who both teach at our school.

William’s titled his March 31st email: “COVID-19 Hits Home.” He taught us that when COVID-19 hits home, there isn’t room to pretend that it will magically go away. You have to face it head on, honestly, openly and hopefully with a wealth of support and a well-equipped medical team.

Yesterday a high school student emailed me and said that he wanted to escape from the prison of his home “since I can’t [do] very much right now due to this pandemic.” I served three years in the U. S. Army. I wrote back and said:

“Thank you for helping fight this virus by staying home. It must feel like a prison, but consider yourself a mighty soldier in a foxhole helping to protect your country. There are people at school who have family members fighting this virus. So the battle is real. Thank you for doing your part.”

While Teacher Appreciation Week is nice, support is needed, too, this year more than most. COVID-19 is hitting our homes while we are doing our best to serve yours.

Like all master teachers, William summed up his lesson perfectly:

“The battle is real, it has landed at the shores of our homes, in communities all over the state. Unfortunately, we can’t fight a virus with guns and grenades. Our weapons are each other, as we battle to keep each other safe, connected and supported.”

(Thanks, William! These are navigation skills we all can use.)

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Thursday, May 7, 10:00 a.m.

Dr. Shane Boosey, psychiatrist, Chapel Hill, NC

Wednesday, May 6, 11:43 p.m.

To see more of the family’s videos visit their YouTube page, Boosey and Friends.

Maureen Quinn Pierson, customer service representative for WCPSS Transportation, Archer Lodge, NC

Wednesday, May 6, 3:45 p.m.

There were approximately 14 cars in Joe and Pat Pierson’s 58th Wedding Anniversary Parade. My husband, David, says his parents’ reaction of happiness was beyond words as the parade passed their home. The past two months with our daughter being an RN and Pops (Joe) not in the best of health and on oxygen, it’s been very difficult being apart.

One of our neighbors that have a family member that is sick was touched by “The Anniversary Parade” and contacted Horne Methodist Church in Clayton. Two days later the congregation came through our development with another parade in honor of one of our neighbors and my husband’s parents “AGAIN!” VERY INSPIRATIONAL!

They have quite the love story...They met at Cranberry Lake Community in New Jersey where her family had a summer house and my father in-law’s family lived there full time. They use to go on dates in his Bel Air turquoise convertible. They were married and have three children. Joseph Pierson Jr. (who resides in the Philippines), David Pierson and Nancy Pierson who both reside in NC. They are Proud Grandparents to four Grandchildren: two RN’s, Financial Corporate Tax Analyst (Former Member of NC State WolfPack Football Team #43) and a Financial Adviser and three Great Grandchildren.

Blair Owen, kindergarten teacher at Sycamore Creek Elementary School, Raleigh, NC

Wednesday, May 6, 10:36 p.m.

Friday, May 1st was “Principal’s Day.” Our staff at Sycamore Creek Elementary School knew we wanted to do something super special for our amazing principal, Melody Brunson. Every Wednesday at 1:30 p.m., our entire staff meets virtually to go over new and important information. However, on Wednesday, April 29th, our staff decided to change up the staff meeting a bit. The original plan was to meet at Publix near Mrs. Brunson’s house at 1:00 p.m., line up our cars around 1:15 p.m., and then log on to the staff meeting at the planned time of 1:30 p.m.. Then, we were to instantly leave when Mrs. Brunson signed on (hoping to confuse her a bit). However, because we had such an amazing turnout, traffic was SO backed up (we probably had 50 cars), we had to change the plan quickly to get her outside so we could keep the endless line of cars moving. Our assistant principals, Mrs. Walsh and Mr. Hudson, called Mrs. Brunson to come outside. When she did she was completely shocked and overwhelmed to see our entire staff parading in front of her home. It was an AMAZING day and such a wonderful surprise for her. Mrs. Brunson has worked SO hard over the last few months and has done an incredible job being our leader. The Sycamore Creek staff is extremely thankful for our inspiring, dedicated, and encouraging, leader. We are so proud to call her our principal and appreciate her more than she knows! She is truly one of a kind. :)

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Tuesday, May 5, 5:51 p.m.

Helen Yoest, garden writer, Raleigh, NC

Tuesday, May 5, 1:55 p.m.

Life threw us a curveball with this pandemic. To use a fruit analogy, perfect since I grow a lot of different fruits in my Raleigh garden, I took lemons and made lemonade!

My garden has never looked so good! My work schedule is greatly reduced, so I have l lot of time to get things looking better than ever. But most importantly, as a garden writer, I wanted to be able to share with others many of the edibles we can grow in Raleigh, especially fruit trees and shrubs. As such, I’m doing a series of blog posts on the Kind, Culture, Care, & Comments. I’m often asked how to grow fruits in Raleigh—without spraying—so now I can just share a free link.

Granted, these fruit trees won’t produce as quick as a tomato, but I’m hoping during this time of pandemic, we can embrace understanding where our food comes from and grow for the long haul. This can truly be a life-changing experience.

There is no substitute for experience through trial and error, but it is my hope I can get people excited about growing something they would not otherwise think was within their reach.

Keep checking back, I’m posting a new fruit each day, and in total, there will be about 30 of them!

Tonya Marsh, Family Dollar worker, Durham, NC

Tuesday, May 5, 11:19 a.m.

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Monday, May 4, 2020

Amanda Bordeaux, small business owner, Raleigh, NC

Monday, May 4, 11:25 p.m.

COVID-19 has brought much change to my life. Monday night at 8 pm: I just finished a Zoom check-in with my Bible Study small group. We typically meet each week, share a meal, discuss our study and pray together but we haven’t been able to meet in person since March 9th.

For the past 16 years, I have operated Stellar Sitters. Almost overnight, my business was brought to a halt as mass gatherings were prohibited from meeting and stay at home orders went into effect which meant that churches and families no longer needed sitters. As a small business owner, I’m trying to learn how to navigate my business during this time. One of my clients needed reliable childcare so I personally offered to temporarily homeschool M-F from 9-4. With schools being closed through the end of the school year, this temporary job became more permanent.

My parents and grandma live in Raleigh too so thankfully I’m able to allow them to stay safe at home while I grocery shop for them each week. I drop off the groceries and say hello. It’s nice to have these weekly check-ins to brighten their day and my day. And they have been giving me some nice tips!

As an extrovert, I’ve had to figure out ways to safely spend time with people. Each week I set up a few social distance picnics at the park or bike rides on the greenway. This allows me to connect with friends and have things to look forward to each week!

I’m a frequent traveler and most of my upcoming trips have been canceled. Although I’ve been disappointed, I understand and support the decisions to cancel. I’ve tried to find the silver lining in all of this. I’ve been able to spend more time with my roommates, have a slower pace of life, learn to cook, write letters to friends and spend more time with God. I’m ready to go back to “normal,” whatever that may be, but until then I’m trying to be grateful and focus on the blessings!

Alexus Rhone, artistic theologian & master storyteller, Raleigh, NC

Monday, May 4, 12:44 p.m.

Kate Young, retired cultural anthropologist & Peace Corps volunteer, Durham, NC

Monday, May 4, 12:05 p.m.

This morning’s zoom meditation ended with these words:

“Move your lovely heart out into the day”

Outside my bedroom window, a chorus of birds and the tock, tock of a woodpecker

Rings in this sparkling new-green morning,

Cool breezes waft through my bedroom window.

In another bedroom, my brother lies

In a nursing home.

No visitors. Limited contact even with staff,

No contact with other patients, family -

a Corona casualty of

A plaque of indefinite proportions.

How long? How long? I ask again and again.

No answers, nobody knows.

Last Friday these messages were planted in the flower bed in front of his nursing home

On painted-over election signs my neighbor collected for her child’s class project:

Embedded in a circle of hearts: “Heroes work here”

The words, “Saving the day!” below a caped figure flying in front of a hospital

A rainbow captioned: “ Thank you! Montessori Magnet Elementary”

These children are the ones I think of this morning -

Lovely hearts moving out into a world sorely in need of them.

Visit Kate’s blog for her more of her writing.

Janet Perez, Governor Morehead School instructional technology specialist, Raleigh, NC

Monday, May 4, 9:10 a.m.

Back in March, as whispers of the shelter-in-place started to grow, Brian Ebeling, our IT Manager, was busy researching our options for distance learning. (Again, accessibility is a key issue. “Will it work with a screen reader?”—the question that drives the technology we use.) Zoom worked, but due to confidentiality issues, using Zoom was out. (Brian was ahead of that curve!) With minutes to spare (literally minutes), Brian had Microsoft Teams loaded onto our students’ iPads and laptops. It was Thursday, March 19th, the day before our scheduled Teacher Workday, the day our buses drove off to take our residential students home, all across North Carolina. Of course, we told our students that we hoped to see them on the following Monday. Seven Mondays later our success with distance learning is upheld by Brian’s expertise and tenacity, not to mention his long workdays. There is no rest for our IT guy. Being an IT Manager means you get to solve problems, whether due to cut cables, downed trees, equipment failures, policy changes, user errors or global pandemics. With a gentle tone and a great sense of humor, Brian continues to respond to endless text messages, emails, and phone calls (many from me), all while planning our next big tech event: collecting equipment from students who live all across North Carolina!

Yesterday I texted Brian and asked him for a quote for this blog post, this is what he wrote back: “Technology has the amazing capability to unite people, whether it be across the globe or just across the street, and it’s those connections to each other that are the most important things right now. So take care, and reach out to someone you haven’t talked to in a while.”

Thanks to Brian (and his team) we have the technology we need to make distance learning work. (A million thanks to all the IT folks who are supporting distance learning across NC! Just imagine how disconnected we would be without them!)

WEEK 7

Pat Palmer, retired college professor, Raleigh, NC

Sunday, May 3, 8:45 p.m.

I am an 82-year-old retired college professor and the Grandpat to four grandchildren. Two are out of school and working, one in Charlotte and one in Austin, Texas. The third brother is home from his sophomore year at Carolina and their younger sister is graduating this year from Broughton.

Although the two are at home here in Raleigh, I don’t get to spend time with them because of the Covid-19 so I decided to start writing generic letters to the four grandchildren telling them a little bit of my growing up, what my school was like and how I spent my time as a youngster. This gives me something to do with time on my hands, and it is something for them to look forward to as well. I try to write daily. Some of the letters I post on my blog Hangingoutwithgrandpat. This is the letter that I sent them today.

Since my granddaughter missed her senior year of Lacrosse, and her senior prom, not to mention graduation exercises, I’ve tried to do some special things for her. On the night that was supposed to be her prom, I had the florist deliver her a pretty nosegay of flowers. And I’m having a banner made for her showing her as a lacrosse player, Broughton, and Carolina where she will be going in September.

I also spend a considerable amount of time in my treehouse reading. I never tire of reading.

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Sunday, May 3, 1:35 p.m.

Kimberly Wood, clinical research for Amgen Pharmaceuticals, Apex, NC

Sunday, May 3, 9:16 a.m.

On March 14th, my high school senior daughter and I were leaving Portland after wrapping up a college visit at U-O. We were rushing back to make it to my son’s soccer game. Our calendar was full of track meets, soccer games, and lacrosse games. In fact, we didn’t have an open weekend until after graduation in June.

Then, everything was canceled. All of it. We were left with a blank calendar. Senior year is filled in the fall with hurry up and wait. Wait for the college decisions, wait for spring prom, wait for the spring picnic and graduation. But, we have found joy in waiting. We take longer walks in the evening. We have family game nights. Our yard has never looked better as my husband has time to tackle big weekend projects. As an added bonus, he’s not able to travel, so family dinners are a regular occurrence.

I wonder if we’ll look back on this season of waiting as a restful reset. I know we’re all ready to get back to normal, but this new normal has brought a refocus of priorities. And honestly, having two teens who can’t go anywhere has brought a gift of time and conversations that would not have happened in the midst of a busy spring.

Anne Kepplinger, volunteer, Beaufort, NC

Saturday, May 2, 5:43 p.m.

We planted several types of lettuce, broccoli, carrots, peas, kale, tomatoes, squash, cucumbers, basil, dill, coriander, and in the spot of earth we planted 6 Elderberries (2 different types) - because they have superb antiviral properties - and we are planning to buy canning equipment so we can put up food for winter because until a vaccine is available, this situation could go on for some time. We also stocked up on NAC, Elderberry syrup, vitamin C, and Tylenol, just in case!!!

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Saturday, May 2, 2020

Alexus Rhone, artistic theologian & master storyteller, Raleigh, NC

Saturday, May 2, 11:35 a.m.

Ernest Dollar, director of the City of Raleigh Museum, Raleigh, NC

Friday, May 1, 12:54 p.m.

Visit the City of Raleigh Museum online.

Alexus Rhone, artistic theologian & master storyteller, Raleigh, NC

Friday, May 1, 10:48 a.m.

To see more of Rhone’s work visit her website.

Janet Perez, Governor Morehead School instructional technology specialist, Raleigh, NC

Friday, May 1, 9:08 a.m.

As the instructional technology specialist at the Governor Morehead School, finding digital resources that are accessible for students who are blind is challenging on any given day. Even now, with all the many wonderful (and free) educational apps and programs offered during COVID-19, too many do not work with a screen reader (software that reads the screen and allows a person who is blind to navigate and interact with the information and options).

Thankfully, my colleagues and I are skillful at making adjustments and handling glitches. It’s part of what we do to help our students succeed in a world that’s built on sight. While digital resources help supplement our curriculum, most of our students depend on hands-on learning. Hands-on learning during COVID-19? Impossible, right? This is where our fabulous families come in.

This week we received a video from Britny’s family showing her using a balance ball to practice her physical education exercises. There she was, lying on her back, arms extended overhead, legs lifted high as her legs touched the ball then rocked forward. She counted each repetition in Spanish, all the way to 30. Her perfect form and control were impressive. The email subject read: “Inspiration from Britny!” We were inspired, indeed! The joy and appreciation expressed by Britny’s family energized us as we prepared for the weeks ahead.

Families and schools working together as partners have always been a recipe for students’ success. Now, it is also a recipe for hope. We can do this distance learning. We will get through this — together. Sometimes it doesn’t take high-tech, just hands-on telephones, envelopes and mailing labels — low-tech resources we are using to connect minds, hands and hearts across the miles.

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Thursday, April 30, 10:15 p.m.

Hugh Moore, bluegrass musician, Raleigh, NC

Thursday, April 30, 8:46 p.m.

To hear more of Hugh’s work, visit his website.

Donnie W. Smith, retired architectural designer & granddaddy, Garner, NC

Thursday, April 30, 7:24 p.m.

My grandson (Nathan Blackwood) is an 11-year-old 5th grader at Cleveland Elementary School near Clayton. We are very close. I have gone to see and play with him every Thursday possible since he was one-year-old. That is what I miss most.

My daughter gave me a smartphone for Christmas and I have been learning to use it. We FaceTime on Thursdays now. Today one of Nathan’s school assignments (his mother says he spends up to 6 hours a day on schoolwork over the internet) was to write a poem on any subject and he was excited to share his with me.

It was a creative free verse poem titled “Coronavirus is a Bully.” I admit I had to look up what a poem that does not rhyme is called. I thought it was worth sharing so I have inserted a copy.

“Coronavirus is a Bully” by Nathan

You have ended my school year

Hurt many people

Took our toilet paper

Left us secluded in our homes

But we are finding a cure for you

Nicole Skinner, NextGen NC’s regional organizing director, Asheville, NC

Thursday, April 30, 4:42 p.m.

Fritzi Huber, paper artist, Wilmington, NC

Thursday, April 30, 3:59 p.m.

I am in my studio at home, not at my regular studio at Acme art, and making smaller works because of this. But regardless of continuing on with the thread of ideas that usually inspire the work, I have felt compelled to create and share a couple of videos that address completely different matters: what does my knowledge as a hand papermaker and paper obsessed artist play into the bigger picture of C-19? So, below you will find a video regarding making TP at home. The other video directs folks on how to fold an origami snack cup rather than putting a shared snack in your hand, or reaching into a bag or box.

Cameron Art Museum in Wilmington shared Huber’s video on toilet paper making with us.

Huber shared a second DIY video on paper cup making.

To see more of Huber’s work visit New Elements Gallery.

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Thursday, April 30, 2:45 p.m.

Janet Perez, Governor Morehead School instructional technology specialist, Raleigh, NC

Thursday, April 30, 1:02 p.m.

I’m Janet Perez, an instructional technology specialist at the Governor Morehead School, a residential school in Raleigh, NC, for students who are blind or low-vision. Yesterday, I shared an email with my colleagues about the Prevent Child Abuse America (PCAA) National Sing-a-long. I included a quote from Sharon Stone, the organization’s founder: “Anything is possible. The impossible just takes a bit longer.” I added, “This should be our mantra for distance learning!”

Every day, COVID-19 has us asking: How much longer? When will this end? What can we do today to keep students engaged? Today, April 30, PCAA is asking everyone to join in and sing “The Impossible Dream,” the organization’s theme song.

A major concern among educators is keeping all students safe during COVID-19. According to the North Carolina chapter of PCAA, “Times of crisis puts families under great stress and can lead to significant increases in the risk of child maltreatment. North Carolina is experiencing a rise in both domestic violence and child abuse cases as families are socially isolated and the unemployment rate skyrockets.”

I teach because I believe great childhoods are possible, even for children living in impossible situations during COVID-19, children with hearts crying, “How much longer? When will this end? You want me to do what?” Today, North Carolina students, I just want you to learn what it means “to dream the impossible dream!” So look up the lyrics, find a YouTube version you like and let your heart sing!

Remember, in the words of Nelson Mandela, “It always seems impossible until it’s done.” (Nelson Mandela).

Tony Arreaza, musician, music promoter and event organizer, Charlotte, NC

Thursday, April 30, 11:00 a.m.

And now for a song from Arreaza and his family.

To see more of Tony’s work visit his website.

Anne Kepplinger, volunteer, Beaufort, NC

Wednesday, April 29, 4:10 p.m.

In 1996, the man who later became my boyfriend purchased a 220ish-year-old, dilapidated home in Beaufort, NC. (I think he somehow knew the home yearned for its former splendor).

After many years, research and a great deal of sweat, he returned it to its original state. Sometime after 1996 and before this photo, the two of us met quite by accident, and we have pretty much been together ever since!

When we first learned of the pandemic, we were concerned. Both of our fathers were MDs, and my boyfriend is quite knowledgeable about medical history. Plus, we are both in high-risk categories, but we’ve continued our relationship as it has been for the past 11 years (between Raleigh and Beaufort unless he is called to work!) He has a large, sunny yard, and we knew preparing for the worst was necessary. We both love the outdoors. In March he popped over to a nearby hardware store and purchased materials to build a few raised beds.

NC Raise Up/Fight for $15 and a Union, political organization, NC

Wednesday, April 29, 2:00 p.m.

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Wednesday, April 29, 10:30 a.m.

Sydney Turner, high school senior, Apex, NC

Tuesday, April 28, 5:23 p.m.

As a senior at Apex Friendship High School, I had been continuing my training in hopes of somewhat of a spring track season. However, with NC schools officially closed for the year, I was left a little heartbroken over my last season, my personal goals and not seeing my teammates or coaches.

However, I don’t plan on quitting running any time soon and have found lots of new ways to get moving. With all this beautiful spring weather we’ve been having, I’ve branched out from my everyday running spot, the American Tobacco Trail, to some new places including Harris Lake (pictured in the photo). The views were breathtaking, and any time I get out on a run, walk, or bike ride, it’s a great way to clear my head and let off some steam.

Last Friday, I attempted an 800m time trial and wore my school uniform and everything. As I was changing to leave, my anklet broke off. It was a piece of string from a team-building activity from cross country camp that I’d had on since July 2019. It reminded me everyday how thankful I was for the community I’ve found through running and my teammates.

I would never have taken it off, it meant too much to me. But, that night it finally broke, and it was the beginning of me letting go. Later that night is when I learned the season was done. The timing was too real.

There’s lots of uncertainty still, about graduation, AP exams, even starting college hopefully in the fall. But through it all I’ve found lots of kind words and compassionate people supporting one another. I recently had the opportunity to share what my own principal did to show his support for seniors, writing 590 names of the class of 2020 on a wall in the school.

Wanda Coker, Burger King worker & NC Raise Up leader, Fayetteville, NC

Tuesday, April 28, 11:29 a.m.

Sara Fearrington, Waffle House worker & NC Raise Up leader, Durham, NC

Tuesday, April 28, 11:24 a.m.

DeMontay Charles, McDonald’s worker, Youngsville, NC

Tuesday, April 28, 10:41 a.m.

Heather Burgiss, senior producer/director UNC-TV, Apex, NC

Monday, April 27, 2020

To see some of the stories Burgiss and her team are producing, visit their site My Home, NC.

Kristen Hess, CEO of HH Architecture, Raleigh, NC

Monday, April 27, 2:06 p.m.

Eric Winston, McDonald’s and KFC worker, Durham, NC

Monday, April 27, 8:55 a.m.

WEEK 6

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Saturday, April 25, 4:28 p.m.

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Friday, April 24, 9:42 p.m.

Laura Scott, former special education teacher, Kernersville, NC

Friday, April 24, 5:48 p.m.

It’s been 43 days (as of April 24) since 13-year-old Preston and his classmates have been on the beautiful campus of Governor Morehead School, but it isn’t stopping them from learning and interacting with each other.

Like all students in N.C., Preston is attending school though distance learning. Shortly after campus was vacated, his teachers mailed packets with work, art projects and reading material. Preston also has been attending virtual classes though conference calls with his teachers and classmates. Preston’s favorite part of virtual learning is hearing from the teachers and friends he misses so much during the conference calls!

During the calls, the teachers and students go over material, read stories and solve math problems. The teachers ask questions and in addition to verbally answering, they also Braille them using a Braille writer.

Preston looks forward to returning to campus and getting back to in-person class and campus life, but for now he is enjoying all GMS is doing to keep the learning going.

Nicole Skinner, NextGen NC’s regional organizing director, Asheville, NC

Friday, April 24, 2:49 p.m.

Eshawney Gaston, homecare worker, Durham, NC

Friday, April 24, 8:34 a.m.

Lamont Perry, restaurant worker at Texas Roadhouse & member of NC Raise Up, Durham, NC

Thursday, April 23, 2:08 p.m.

Nichole Visnesky, senior at WCU, intern & community mental health assistant, Cullowhee, NC

Thursday, April 23, 12:30 p.m.

Kate Young, retired cultural anthropologist & Peace Corps volunteer, Durham, NC

Thursday, April 23, 2020

Kate Young shares from her personal blog about her brother, Bobby, who resides in a Durham nursing home where several patients have tested positive for COVID-19, including her brother.

3/30 Week 2: Nursing Home Lock Down

“Hey, Bobbio! I love you! I miss you! You are my Sweetheart,” I yell over and over again through the window of his room.

Listening, he turns his head, sees me through the fog of his Dementia. I wave. He lifts his arm, waves, fingers wiggling, patting the air.

Then he cackles his wide-open-mouth laugh. I cackle too. “I love you!” I say again.

A few seconds pass. “I love you,” he whispers back. It’s enough – this little dance of words, waves, laughter.

4/8 Wednesday, Week 3

Then yesterday, three weeks into coronavirus lockdown, I stand outside the window knocking. An unknown nurse assistant appears at the window, shuts it tight, refuses to pull his bed closer to the window so I can see him, him, me.Something’s up.

4/12 Sunday, Week 4

I’ve been calling the nurses station for two days to alert the staff that Bobby is not getting much sleep. I know this because I get a report each day from the modem on his CPAP machine. Without the CPAP to keep his airway open, he cannot fall into deep sleep. The next day he’s a zombie, eyes red, unable to speak, comprehend.

At midnight, I reach the weekend nurse. I ask how she is doing, no need to say why I’m calling. “So, so tired.”

I get the picture of frenzied administration receiving directives, implementing new plans, orders raining down on a staff working 16 hours a day. “Bless you for being there, for taking care of Bobby.”

“I know he misses you and hates being stuck in bed, in his room all the time.”

Now under room-confinement rules, he’s separated from the other residents who dote on him, drop by to receive his hugs, kisses, smiles – small blessings. Bobby’s girlfriend is Shirley, an ex-model and snazzy dresser, wheelchair-bound by a stroke but with a sharp mind and tongue, she rules this corner of the nursing home.

“I tell all these women around here to keep their hands off him. He’s mine. But Bobby can’t help himself. He wants to kiss them all.”

My little brother Bobby, born with Down syndrome, a lady-killer, charm and affection galore, as long as he is in this world.

4/13 Monday, Week 4

This morning’s CPAP sleep report for Sunday read: 32 minutes.

I am on the phone 10 minutes later with the nurse practitioner. I will continue calling, monitoring … Not enough, not nearly enough. To change reality.

4/14 Tuesday, Week 4

He got extra medication and 11 hours sleep Monday night, had a good iPad interaction with our brother, Larry, who lives in Houston. “You project well over that iPad,” I tell him when he calls later. He’s a born actor and singer. He keeps Bobby and the staff laughing.

Then the other call comes: Bobby tested positive, has no symptoms, is not sick. Still, he will be moved to a special unit for patients carrying the virus. Taken away from his caregivers schooled in Bobbydom, his special needs, accustomed to my requests, expectations, presence, picking up the pieces, my detailed notes posted on the wall above his bed.

4/16 Thursday, Week 4

I begin calling and emailing at 8 a.m., anxious to follow up on his move to the COVID unit, to ask about the things he needs. A thousand things. At 3 p.m., I call again. “Not to worry, he is fine, perky in a room right across from the nurse’s station,” they tell me. They sound confident, relaxed.

Today he is OK. It’s enough….

4/22, Week 5

The report from the modem on Bobby’s CPAP machine reads seven hours of deep sleep. And after two weeks since testing positive, he is symptom-free, not sick. Only sick of loneliness, isolation.

To read more of Kate’s writing, visit her blog.

Ben Hamburger, artist & educator, Asheville, NC

Wednesday, April 22, 6:14 p.m.

To see more of Ben’s work, visit his website.

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Wednesday, April 22, 5:30 p.m.

Robert Buchanan, former Duke University employee, Durham, NC

Wednesday, April 22, 11:48 a.m.

Frank Harmon, architect, educator & writer, Raleigh, NC

Tuesday, April 21, 8:24 p.m.

My late wife Judy and I made this garden 30 years ago. Since then, we watched our children grow into adults and saw our sunny garden become part sunny because of the shade trees we planted.

Since we planted our first live oak tree, there have been five United States presidents but only one family of bats, who returned recently for their 25th year to swoop down upon our pool at night.

I rake the garden’s paths as a sort of meditation. Back when Judy was sick, the paths were immaculate. Now that there’s a pandemic, they’re pristine again.

I’m sharing the garden this year with a family of robins who are nesting in the south fence. We’re all sheltering in place.

Nature gives us many pleasures: fresh air, sunlight, and small furry things that fly in the night. But sometimes its greatest gift is consolation.

Emily Dickinson thought that to comprehend a nectar required sorest need.

She also kept a garden.

To see more of Frank Harmon’s work visit his website.

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Tuesday, April 21, 2:01 p.m.

Trevor Gates, junior at WCU & volunteer for Down Home NC, Cullowhee, NC

Tuesday, April 21, 12:09 p.m.

Nichole Visnesky, senior at WCU, intern & community mental health assistant, Cullowhee, NC

Tuesday, April 21, 11:30 a.m.

Tyrone Richardson, maintenance worker & NC Raise Up member, Durham, NC

Tuesday, April 21, 11:15 a.m.

Dafney Tales-Lafortune, Bon Fritay Haitian Food Truck, Raleigh & Durham, NC

Tuesday, April 21, 10:06 a.m.

Sherry Monahan, author & writer, Fuquay-Varina, NC

Monday, April 20, 11:31 a.m.

I’m a local author and I work from home every day, and have for a few years now.

For whatever reason, despite having a book due June, and magazine columns each month, my creativity has strayed.

With Covid-19 being so sad, my brain kicked into humor mode. When it did, I started thinking what I could write. That’s when I came up with some funny journals that I published on Amazon (under On a Lark Books). The three are 1.) Who Needs Pants During a Pandemic 2.) My Toilet Paper Book, and 3.) My Pandemic Diary.

I also started thinking about what our cat must be wondering with me and my husband home. One of my three is named Hobbs and I created a video of his take on what’s happening. I plan to release a few more entries “from Hobbs.”

Stay safe and try to find something to laugh at...

Christine Sabino, mom & cancer patient, Raleigh, NC

Monday, April 20, 9:20 a.m.

I am a 46-year-old widow with one child. In March I was diagnosed with breast cancer and had surgery. More cancer was found in my lymph nodes. I need radiation and now await results to see if I have to have chemotherapy. Due to the restrictions, I can’t bring anyone to my appointments for support. I can’t even have a hug. It’s an exceptionally bad time to be alone.

Wanda Coker, Burger King worker & NC Raise Up leader, Fayetteville, NC

Monday, April 20, 8:56 a.m.

WEEK 5

Robert Wallace, Cross Country and Track & Field coach at Carolina Friends School, Durham, NC

Sunday, April 19, 3:30 p.m.

I have just finished reading Camus’ “The Plague.” Perhaps there are many who would be incredulous at the idea of reading the novel while we are in the midst of our own pandemic. But I find solace in the work, as well as lessons.

Camus said, “There can be no peace without hope.” And so I choose hope during this imperiled time. I choose it because of the many extraordinary people doing extraordinary things.

The doctors, nurses, and all the hospital staff and their heroic struggle to save us, the grocery store employees and farmers who literally feed us, the transportation workers delivering us goods, and the millions and millions of others all across the globe that get up every single day and put themselves on the line to get us through this, so that millions of others can stay safely in our homes. And especially to all the voices that honor the truth with compassion so that we can have hope.

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Sunday, April 19, 2020

Jeanne Austin, retired proofreader at North Carolina General Assembly, Apex, NC

Sunday, April 19, 10:06 a.m

All our many community and volunteer activities are on hiatus. So, husband and I are (somewhat) enjoying the slower pace of life: walking (masked) on greenways, sharing yard work, sewing cloth face masks to donate, and just being together. Zoom and other technology has been a Godsend for keeping up with church services, interest groups, and family and friends all over the country.

We’re trying to be especially vigilant with social distancing because of health concerns: husband had heart transplant 17 years ago (compromised immune system) and I am a recent cancer survivor.

Trying to spread some joy and light in the neighborhood with small teddy bears and battery candles in front window and a masked Snoopy hanging out the back of my pickup truck! My new favorite T-shirt saying: “Don’t wait for the storm to pass. Dance in the Rain”!

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Saturday, April 18, 6:00 p.m.

Randy Purcell, member of NC Raise Up, Durham, NC

Saturday, April 18, 10:44 a.m.

Nicole Skinner, NextGen NC’s regional organizing director, Asheville, NC

Friday, April 17, 2:37 p.m.

Frank Fraser, Uber & Lyft driver, Durham, NC

Friday, April 17, 1:26 p.m.

Susan West, journalist, Buxton, NC

Friday, April 17, 10:37 a.m.

Main concern today: Economic Impact on Hatteras Island small businesses

The federal small business rescue program ran out of money yesterday, and this morning I read that Ruth’s Chris Steak House restaurant chain got $20 million in forgivable loans from the program.

A restaurant chain with more than 5,000 workers doesn’t come to mind when I think about small businesses. What does come to mind are the small businesses in my community on Hatteras Island, the mom-and-pop businesses that might have a few dozen employees or maybe only a handful or even fewer. I also think of the creative freelancers, the artists and musicians and bakers and crafters, who are no less important to the lifeblood of the island.

Those small businesses support this community in ways that extend far beyond economic impact, ways difficult to quantify but just as important. Not only do they add local color to the island, they can be counted on to generously donate to fundraisers for school activities, charitable food programs, families in need, the volunteer fire departments, and more.

The federal rescue program was an awkward fit for most businesses on the island. Businesses with no employees discovered that, despite assurances when the program was rolled out, they didn’t qualify. Businesses that have run on old-school theories and avoided debt had no loan officer to turn to, and businesses dependent on tourism weren’t able to commit to rehiring employees within eight weeks.

Shari Marsh, travel agency owner, Raleigh, NC

Friday, April 17, 9:45 a.m.

I call this Groundhog Day No. 42. Every day is the same. As the owner of a travel agency, all the love and joy I put into my guests travel plans has become heartache of unwinding those dreams.

I start every morning at 6:30 a.m. Can’t sleep. Look at email, look at news. I have made sure everyone is safe and home. I have guests who want to keep their wedding and honeymoon in place. I have guests who are afraid to travel in six months. I have guests asking the same questions over and over: Where is my refund? Is my flight canceled? Is my trip canceled?

As for me, I am working 10 to 12 hours a day. Unwinding travel. Keeping up with the refund/cancellation policies of over 30 cruise lines and tour companies, over 15 airlines, and explaining these ever-changing policies. I’ve turned into a financial advisor these days – more than I am a travel professional. There are hold times of two to five hours so they aren’t faced with this challenge.

When trips are canceled, we don’t get paid. Hours of creating a trip is now hours of canceling many components of a trip. I’m happy to help all my people – I want to – but I haven’t had a minute to worry about my business. I am the only employee of my company. The Paycheck Protection Program is out of money. Unemployment is a huge MAYBE. No stimulus check for me. I feel for my hairdresser and the restaurants closed by the government.

On the flip side of my life, I have owned my business 13 years. I know the people in this industry and I have relationships with them. So many travel companies have let go of 50 to 90% of their work force. More heartache for me. Two cruise lines were forced to cancel their entire Alaska season. That means lodges, trains, and many tour guides are 100% out of work for this season, and they earn their entire year’s salary in the summer.

So, I’ll roll up my sleeves today and find a point in my day where I feel like Wonder Woman making one of my guests feel better and secure and confident in their decision – and I’ll hold on to that small victory. I keep hearing “we are all in this together.” I’m just trying to do my small part, too.

My new mantra: Getting through this together, by being kind to one another!

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Thursday-Friday, April 16-17, 6:00 p.m.-1:00 a.m.

Joe Newberry, musician, Raleigh, NC

Thursday, April 16, 5:42 p.m.

And now for a song...

To hear more of Joe’s music visit his website.

Jean Gray Mohs and Emily Kotecki, educators and co-creators of Tin Can Kids, Raleigh, NC

Thursday, April 16, 2:32 p.m.

We are wrapping up the fifth week of Tin Can Kids, where the theme is Community and Family. All week we’ve had virtual field trips dedicated to exploring this idea. It also got us (Jean Gray and Emily) reflecting on these concepts. Individually, we’re with our families all the time and leaning into this experience. Collectively, we’ve created a community within Tin Can Kids. We see those smiling faces of kids all over the country each day. We are helping to nurture an environment of hope, creativity, and community.

More recently, we expanded that community by inviting other organizations also creating online experiences to host virtual field trips. The Nasher Museum of Art hosted a field trip about letter writing to the elderly. We’ll have the Art Therapy Institute of NC hosting a field trip about coping. We’ll have KidLab Raleigh teaching us about building a bug hotel!

Tin Can Kids wanted to reach out and say, “Let’s do this together!” Let’s help families, share our expertise, and provide new ways to connect. We keep saying that community is the engine that drives Tin Can Kids and the more we invest in it, the richer the experience.

Tin Can Kids is a virtual one-room schoolhouse with free, daily virtual trips on various topics hosted by kids and families. Sign up to get the weekly link and schedule.

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Wednesday, April 15, 2020

Trevor Gates, junior at WCU & volunteer for Down Home NC, Cullowhee, NC

Wednesday, April 15, 4 p.m.

Susan West, journalist, Buxton, NC

Wednesday, April 15, 1:39 p.m.

Main concern today: Economic impact on Hatteras Island commercial fishing community

The first warning flags went up around the middle of February when news outlets started carrying articles about collapsing markets for U.S. seafood exported to China.

Within a few weeks, New York and other major Atlantic seaboard cities ordered restaurants closed under stay-at-home coronavirus orders. Prices paid commercial fishermen, including those here on Hatteras Island, plummeted as demand at seafood wholesale hubs in New York and Boston slowed to a crawl or stopped altogether.

Fish houses and commercial fishermen on the island are struggling, but still hold on to optimism that they will weather this storm. They say maybe local seafood will win over more converts as the downside to reliance on globally sourced food becomes clearer.

With low prices and little market demand, many boats remain tied to the docks but fishermen still have tasks to do. Even with little or no money coming in, boats and engines still need repairs and nets still need hanging, and fishermen still hope for a good season.

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Wednesday, April 15, 10:30 a.m.

Eshawney Gaston, homecare worker, Durham, NC

Wednesday, April 15, 8:01 a.m.

Inez Ribustello, co-owner of Tarboro Brewing Co., On The Square & TBC West, Tarboro, NC

Recorded March 25 & shared with The News & Observer on Tuesday, April 14, 12:49 p.m.

Trevor Gates, junior at WCU & volunteer for Down Home NC, Cullowhee, NC

Tuesday, April 14, 9:13 a.m.

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Monday, April 14, 6:00 p.m.

Rebecca Rogers, high school social studies teacher, Raleigh, NC

Monday, April 13, 8:45 a.m.

Quan Horton, minimum wage worker, Durham, NC

Monday, April 13, 8 a.m.

WEEK 4

Nichole Visnesky, senior at WCU, intern & community mental health assistant, Cullowhee, NC

Sunday, April 12, 9 p.m.

Julia Swinn, registered nurse and cardiovascular specialist, Raleigh, NC

Sunday, April 12, 8:28 p.m.

Inmate at Butner Federal Correctional Complex, Butner, NC

Sunday, April 12, 9:19 a.m.

Kristin Holmes of Georgia provided these emails from her boyfriend, with his permission. He is an inmate at Butner’s Satellite Prison Camp and did not want to be identified.

Tensions are still high at Butner camp today. Fear and anxiety are the new norms...

Wanda Coker, Burger King worker & NC Raise Up leader, Fayetteville, NC

Sunday, April 12, 8:30 a.m.

Nichole Visnesky, senior at WCU, intern & community mental health assistant, Cullowhee, NC

Saturday, April 11, 11:30 a.m.

Trevor Gates, junior at WCU & volunteer for Down Home NC, Cullowhee, NC

Saturday, April 11, 8:49 a.m.

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Friday, April 10, 5:49 p.m.

Inmate at Butner Federal Correctional Complex, Butner, NC

Friday, April 10, 3:06 p.m

Kristin Holmes of Georgia provided these emails from her boyfriend, with his permission. He is an inmate at Butner’s Satellite Prison Camp and did not want to be identified.

As of yesterday, it came to the attention of inmates here at Butner camp that two staff members at this facility tested positive for COVID-19. Shortly after this was discovered, all inmates were issued a cloth mask that we are told may be washed and reused multiple times.

Better than nothing I guess. People here are tense, but even more so now that staff here have tested positive. Temperatures are being taken first thing in the morning. Every inmate is screened, and I fear that in the next few days, the virus will start to show in our inmate population.

We knew this would happen and could have been prevented. Now that we are jammed together even more tight than before, we are twice as vulnerable.

Nichole Visnesky, senior at WCU, intern & community mental health assistant, Cullowhee, NC

Friday, April 10, 11:30 a.m.

Jessica McQuaig, laid-off restaurant worker & NC Raise Up member, Durham, NC

Friday, April 10, 9:24 a.m.

LaMont Perry, restaurant worker and NC Raise Up member, Durham, NC

Friday, April 10, 8:46 a.m.

Nichole Visnesky, senior at WCU, intern & community mental health assistant, Cullowhee, NC

Thursday, April 9, 6:30 p.m.

Marcie Cohen Ferris, professor emeritus American Studies at UNC-CH, Chapel Hill, NC

Thursday, April 9, 2:06 p.m.

Since we’re eating most meals for two nights in a row, at least, I’m adding thin rice noodles (from my pantry) and maybe some tofu (from the freezer) to the leftover matzoh ball soup tonight. Now it’s a Jewish-style-Ramen bowl. Who knew?

Lisa Finaldi, community engagement leader at NC Early Childhood Foundation, Raleigh, NC

Thursday, April 9, 12:00 p.m.

I find myself reading and listening - (probably too much) about COVID-19 to understand how this crisis could change Americans’ attitudes and actions about all kinds of things that directly or indirectly affect them.

Here are my hopes for change:

* We find a new love for nature.

* We pay our teachers commensurate with their value.

* We find more time for our families.

* We address disparities - especially race inequity.

* We are more generous in thought and action.

Trevor Gates, junior at WCU & volunteer for Down Home NC, Cullowhee, NC

Thursday, April 9, 10:48 a.m.

Bertha Bradley, fast food worker and a leader with NC Raise Up, Durham, NC

Thursday, April 9, 7:46 a.m.

Inmate at Butner Federal Correctional Complex, Butner, NC

Wednesday, April 8, 8:06 p.m.

Kristin Holmes of Georgia provided these emails from her boyfriend, with his permission. He is an inmate at Butner’s Satellite Prison Camp and did not want to be identified.

I’m incarcerated for a non-violent crime and have had good conduct, programming and worked for the length of my sentence.

Since the outbreak of the coronavirus, life at this low-custody prison has turned into more like a high-security prison. We are trusted not to leave here without a fence, and we do so. So, why can’t we be trusted at home the same way? ... We are scared and didn’t sign up for life sentences, but it seems our lives only (are) worth our work.

Marcie Cohen Ferris, professor emeritus American Studies at UNC-CH, Chapel Hill, NC

Wednesday, April 8, Day of Passover.

Prepped my matzoh ball mix and simmered the matzoh balls in water and a little broth. Didn’t peek for 30 minutes. Made an Ashkenazi-style charoset — a mix of apples, walnuts, red wine (best with a sweet Passover wine, like Manischewitz, but we used what we had) a little cinnamon — a food symbolic of the labor of the enslaved Israelites in Egypt. (It’s supposed to look like mortar.)

Packed up containers of soup, matzoh balls and charoset for Mom and delivered curbside-contact-free in gloves and mask appropriate.

Before our own tiny quarantined Seder (Bill and me), we briefly join a family seder via Zoom to say hello, share greetings and a quick glimpses of impromptu Passover dishes and tables.

Nichole Visnesky, senior at WCU, intern & community mental health assistant, Cullowhee, NC

Wednesday, April 8, 11:15 a.m.

Trevor Gates, junior at WCU & volunteer for Down Home NC, Cullowhee, NC

Wednesday, April 8, 9:47 a.m.

Marcie Cohen Ferris, professor emeritus American Studies at UNC-CH, Chapel Hill, NC

Tuesday, April 7, Day before Passover.

Bill and I have been eating plant-based (largely) for the past year, so no searching for a “nice fat chicken” in my Passover preparations this year. Yay. Saw a recipe for a vegan matzoh ball soup, but adapted it after reading cooking instructions to “discard the vegetables’ after making the veggie stock. (Global Pandemic Rule: DO NOT discard vegetables.)

Instead of simmering the leek, onion, carrot and celery in boxed vegetable broth, I just rough chopped and then oven-roasted the veg mix (2 leeks, a large onion, 3-4 carrots, 4 stalks celery, 2 garlic cloves, salt, pepper, olive oil) at high heat for about 20 minutes, and then added this to soup pot with two boxes of vegetable broth. Let it simmer for a good while. Add some wilted parsley, and there you go. It rested in the fridge overnight.

Matzoh balls were made from a mix I somehow remembered to order online, which arrived in time. Matzoh did not. Passover is going to be an extended holiday this year. When it does arrive, we’ll make matzo brei (fried matzoh and scramble-ished eggs) for supper and forget we’re plant-based for a night.

Nichole Visnesky, senior at WCU, intern & community mental health assistant, Cullowhee, NC

Tuesday, April 7, 4:00 p.m.

Inmate at Butner Federal Correctional Complex, Butner, NC

Tuesday, April 7, 7:49 a.m.

Kristin Holmes of Georgia provided these emails from her boyfriend, with his permission. He is an inmate at Butner’s Satellite Prison Camp and did not want to be identified.

“I figured that just in case the question arises: Why do I continue to go to work? Two reasons. One is it gets me away from these locked-down units, and two is that I use the money from that job to get by, so my family doesn’t have to send me money. My dad will give me anything, even if it hurts him. He just wouldn’t tell me. He takes care of my two girls and my sister’s kid too. any burden I can take off of him I’ll gladly do.

“If I could quit, I would, but to me. that is not an option. Plus no one knows how to do my job, and if I left, it would affect the other guys I work with and they are my friends. I don’t wanna leave them hung out to dry. I guess you would have to be locked up to understand. We are in this together. Hey, that’s the same thing they say about this virus. Right. Same principle.”

“They moved us. ... We are elbow to elbow in here. It’s [expletive] stupid. Well, I’m off to work.”

Inmate at Butner Federal Correctional Complex, Butner, NC

Kristin Holmes of Georgia provided these emails from her boyfriend, with his permission. He is an inmate at Butner’s Satellite Prison Camp and did not want to be identified.

Inmate at Butner Federal Correctional Complex, Butner, NC

Monday, April 6, 2020

Families and friends of inmates have been reaching out to The News & Observer since it first reported a coronavirus outbreak at Butner. Kristin Holmes of Georgia provided these emails from her boyfriend, with his permission. He is an inmate at Butner’s Satellite Prison Camp and did not want to be identified.

“Expecting tempers to escalate soon. It’s overcrowded and dangerous. people listen when I speak, but now everyone has their own crisis in their own mind and NO ONE will listen. I’m ready to come home. I have less than a year and I don’t mind doing it, but this is ridiculous. Is my life worth them getting these last few days from me? I’ve given enough. I’ve worked everyday, programmed with no benefits and been in no trouble. I’ve paid my dues. I’m wearing thin. I’m mentally ready to give up.”

“This [expletive] is just getting really scary. I just want to go home before it gets too bad or it’s too late.”

Emma Gottschalk, senior at Enloe High School, Raleigh, NC

Monday, April 6, 8:14 p.m.

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Monday, April 6, 7:21 p.m.

Javon Craig, former Burger King worker & member of NC Raise Up, Durham, NC

Monday, April 6, 4:51 p.m.

Elise Mahon, sophomore at UNC-Chapel Hill, Apex, NC

Monday, April 6, 4:40 p.m.

Trevor Gates, junior at WCU & volunteer for Down Home NC, Cullowhee, NC

Monday, April 6, 12:07 p.m.

Nichole Visnesky, senior at WCU, intern & community mental health assistant, Cullowhee, NC

Monday, April 6, 11:25 a.m.

Find a link to NC United for Survival & Beyond here.

Danielle Niedfeldt, president/CEO of Carolina Donor Services, Durham, NC

Monday, April 6, 8:57 a.m.

WEEK 3

Emma Gottschalk, senior at Enloe High School, Raleigh, NC

Sunday, April 5, 8:43 p.m.

Trevor Gates, junior at WCU & volunteer for Down Home NC, Cullowhee, NC

Sunday, April 5, 3:23 p.m.

Vera Fabian, farmer at Ten Mothers Farm, Cedar Grove, NC

Sunday, April 5, 11:23 a.m.

Ann Kuhar, retired, Raleigh, NC

Sunday, April 5, 9:34 a.m.

I am one of those lucky grandmas that live close enough to her children that I usually see my grandson a couple times a week. However, with the coronavirus I am not visiting him.

I am so fortunate to have a wonderful son and daughter-in-law who send me pictures every day, and we do a video chat a couple times a week (although at 20 months, he’s hard to keep still long enough for much chatting!). I have many friends who are grandparents and they are very much aching too as they miss holding those sweet little ones who grow up so fast.

Nichole Visnesky, senior at WCU, intern & community mental health assistant, Cullowhee, NC

Sunday, April 5, 7:30 a.m.

Trevor Gates, junior at WCU & volunteer for Down Home NC, Cullowhee, NC

Saturday, April 4, 5:25 p.m.

Nichole Visnesky, senior at WCU, intern & community mental health assistant, Cullowhee, NC

Saturday, April 4, 7:22 a.m.

Maggie Kane, executive director of A Place At The Table, Raleigh, NC

Friday, April 3, 2020

Sandi Kronick, co-owner of Happy Dirt, Durham, NC

Friday, April 3, 2020

Dee Fearrington, unemployed independent contractor & NC Raise Up leader, Durham, NC

Friday, April 3, 2020

Nichole Visnesky, senior at WCU, intern & community mental health assistant, Cullowhee, NC

Friday, April 3, 2:22 p.m.

Liane, critical care float pool nurse, Triangle, NC

Friday, April 3, 1:34 p.m.

*Liane did not want to use her full name because she isn’t authorized by her employer to speak about her job.

Sheree Allen, laid-off child care worker & NC Raise Up leader, Durham, NC

Friday, April 3, 11:46 a.m.

Jamila Allen, fast food worker at Freddy’s & leader for NC Raise Up & Fight For $15, Durham, NC

Friday, April 3, 11:46 a.m.

Trevor Gates, junior at WCU & volunteer for Down Home NC, Cullowhee, NC

Friday, April 3, 9:28 a.m.

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Friday, April 3, 2020

Christopher Lopez, chef at Postmaster restaurant, Cary, NC

Thursday, April 2, 9:30 p.m.

I have no words for how fortunate we are to be thriving at this time. It’s hard to be happy and revel in our success when we know so many others cannot say the same, others that are near and dear to us.

GOV’T CHEESEBURGER has been more successful than we could have imagined, and I’m grateful for the opportunity to keep busy, keep a handful employed, and do more than just stay afloat.

The core value still rings true, we are trying our best to do right by our small staff that we had to let go, and this has been a perfect way to do so. As we get more accustomed to this new normal, we can do more and more. One day at a time.

Nichole Visnesky, Senior at WCU, intern & community mental health assistant, Cullowhee, NC

Thursday, April 2, 4:37 p.m.

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Thursday, April 2, 3:30 p.m.

Self portrait in gear. Foggy because I have my phone in a plastic bag to avoid contamination. This is the gear I most prefer (most protected) for COVID patients. We have a limited amount of this.

Leonardo Williams, Zweli’s Kitchen & Catering owner, Durham, NC

Wednesday, April 1, 8:50 p.m.

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Wednesday, April 1, 8:11 p.m.

Nichole Visnesky, Senior at WCU, intern & community mental health assistant, Cullowhee, NC

Wednesday, April 1, 5:52 p.m.

Nannette Melcher, retired, Chapel Hill, NC

Wednesday, April 1, 12:01 p.m.

I am 91 years old and live in a continuing care retirement community. Here we have an exercise room with a variety of equipment, an art room for classes and displays, a card room, a library, four different restaurants and multiple scheduled activities which we may join or not.

But not now. The activity building and main building are closed to residents. Meals are delivered to our doors — from a limited menu ordered by phone from weekly printed menus delivered to our mail kiosks. We may only leave the campus for medical apartments through one guarded entrance.

So, we are not happy, but we are glad we are being cared for and appreciate the extra time and work the employees spend to make that happen. We take walks in the sunshine and gather in apartment lobbies — approximately 6 feet apart — to discuss life, liberty and politics. And hope that this too shall pass before we do!

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Tuesday, March 31, 5:50 a.m.

Sydney Turner, high school senior, Apex, NC

Monday, March 30, 10:40 p.m.

I’m Sydney Turner. I live in Apex and am a senior at Apex Friendship High School.

I’ve officially been out of school for two weeks now. During the traditional school year, I’m very busy and also very social. To put a positive spin on things, I’ve finally gotten some time to relax after a lot of school-induced stress. I know everyone says, “Use this time to do things you wouldn’t normally have time to do,” but that’s what has worked best for me. I haven’t once yet said, “I’m bored.” While at home, I genuinely feel like I’ve gotten closer to my family and my sister, which I’m thankful for.

I’ve gone through waves of fear. I was anxious during the last days of school. And as all my peers were still getting together earlier on, I kept my distance and took what some might have considered extreme precaution.

Week one, I was still making plans to see a couple of friends at a time in open outdoor spaces, but never getting too close to anyone. But as time passed, it not only made me uncomfortable but became clear that those interactions wouldn’t be possible much longer.

It can be frustrating as a teenager to see your peers become part of the problem. We can all become part of the solution by doing our part. I’ve seen the numbers and the trends, and I do see this worsening. But I’m hoping we minimize the impact and show a bit more compassion to one another. Stay hopeful and healthy, write an email to an old friend or mentor, FaceTime or call a loved one, and check up on people.

What I’ve done in quarantine: cleaned underneath my bed aka a deep clean; contracted poison ivy; created and shared a “Dear class of 2020...” video with thousands of people; ran — a lot; painted; baked mediocre chocolate chip cookies; revisited my college options; and video chatted with friends whenever I need someone to talk to.

J. Rich Leonard, Campbell Law School dean, Raleigh, NC

Monday, March 30, 2:55 p.m.

I’m sitting here in a largely empty law school, when usually this time of the semester would be our busiest.

We normally have 500 students and 100 faculty and staff filling this building to capacity. So it’s a little odd now, but having said that, I couldn’t be prouder of where we are. We took a traditional, in-seat law school into a completely online operation in 72 hours. We turned a battleship, and I couldn’t be prouder of my faculty for their creativity, good humor, and their resiliency. We’re delivering the material and we’re going to limp to the end of this semester, not in the way we anticipated, but with some success.

I think transparency is the primary thing now. So I’ve put all of my students in a chat group with me and I go online at 3 every afternoon. I provide them with any new information that I know, and I take their questions until they’re done asking them. Some days it takes 15 minutes, some days it takes an hour and a half.

Our students are also resilient, but they’re very concerned about their future. We’ve learned today that both New York and Massachusetts have canceled the July bar exams. We’re afraid that trend may spread here. They’re very worried about being licensed.

Some of the firms in town have already begun to withdraw some internship opportunities. That’s impacting our students, so we’re very concerned about these things, but we’re taking them in stride.

Brigid Washington, cookbook author and food writer, Raleigh, NC

Monday, March 30, 10:58 a.m.

During a time of tumult, I cling to the emotionally stabilizing culinary traditions of my home country, Trinidad and Tobago. The food and flavors of my Caribbean heritage ground me, my Jamaican husband, Joseph, and our two children, who we call Trin-Ja-Mericans — their lives a triangulation of three distinct countries and cultures.

Raleigh doesn’t have a significant Caribbean footprint, so to fully feel at home, we import traditions central to our upbringings. A warm salted cod salad served alongside corn dumplings is a beloved meal. Making this meal is a tradition we revisit when feeling the harsh uncertainties of the world. For us, this little warm salad brings both salve and a sense of place.

This salted cod salad is known colloquially in Trindad and Tobago as buljol. The name is a portmanteau of the creole brule (burnt) and gueule (mouth), a nod to the dish’s spiciness. While patois contorted the word to its present form, there’s no changing one key ingredient: salt cod.

Cod preserved in salt, native to North Atlantic waters, supplemented the Caribbean slave’s one-meal-per-day ration. The process of making buljol embodies the simplicity that defined slave cooking: quick and straightforward with little margin for indulgence. The dish is an ode to the masterful way that enslaved Africans fused their simple rations with accessible aromatics into a deeply nourishing staple. Even today, in buljol’s postcolonial adaptation — where ingredients like tomatoes and carrots are included — its minimalist preparation persists.

When I’m making this dish, I’m connected to a part of my heritage, one that’s more powerful than memory alone. It’s a dish that reminds me to remain resilient — the way my ancestors were — even in the face of insurmountable challenges. I’m also reminded to remain hopeful, since God’s grace sustains us even under the darkest circumstances, so as to not allow hope to turn into despair. Most of all, I’m reminded to enjoy this edible dimension of my home country and the familiar tastes that offers a window into my warm Caribbean past.

Buljol Recipe

This simple spicy salad is brilliant over toast and keeps up to three days.

▪ ½ pound boneless salt cod, desalinated

▪ 3 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil

▪ 2 large cloves garlic, minced

▪ ½ cup white onion, diced

▪ ¼ cup green onion, diced

▪ 1 cup tomatoes, diced

▪ 2 large carrots, grated

▪ 2 teaspoons ground black pepper

▪ 1 teaspoon chopped habanero pepper, seeds and ribs removed

Bring a large pot of water to a boil. Place the salted cod in the boiling water for 3 minutes. This process further removes the excess salt from the fish. Using a colander and tongs drain the water and remove the fish.

Place the fish in a bowl and flake into small pieces using either a fork or your fingers. Place the flaked fish onto a kitchen towel to remove the excess water then set aside.

In a skillet, heat the oil over medium heat. Add the garlic, white onion and green onion and sauté until fragrant. Then add the tomatoes and carrots and sauté for two minutes. Following this, add the flaked cod. Reduce heat to low, stir in both the peppers and allow to simmer for three to five more minutes. Serve immediately.

WEEK 2

Dr. Colleen Casey, emergency medicine at Rex UNC Hospital, Raleigh, NC

Julia Swinn, Registered nurse and cardiovascular specialist, Raleigh, NC

Saturday, March 28, 6:47 p.m.

Beth Schulman, SPCA of Wake County communications coordinator, Raleigh, NC

Friday, March 27, 12:32 p.m.

Christopher Lopez, chef at Postmaster restaurant, Cary, NC

Thursday, March 26, 11:30 p.m.

Doing business as an old school burger shop has been a huge success. We are getting quite a bit of attention to our concept and branding as well as actual business coming in. The burgers are simple but executed really well. The amounts people have been tipping are unprecedented, and I don’t have enough words to express how grateful I am for the community. We are able to stay true to our word and do what we can to help those we are able to.

Let’s see what this weekend has in store. As this all develops daily, we are hoping to keep our heads above water.

Jen Duerr, Wake Forest, NC

Thursday, March 26, 6 p.m.

Yesterday was my birthday, and my friends surprised me with a birthday parade coronavirus style.

So much fun in a time of social distancing!

Thomas Sayre, Clearscapes sculptor & painter, Raleigh, NC

Thursday, March 26, 5:19 p.m.

Tenille Fox, Orange County Animal Services communications specialist, Chapel Hill, NC

Thursday, March 26, 10 a.m.

As the Communications Specialist for Orange County Animal Services (OCAS), I can safely say that our operations are currently all about adapting to change. Stay-at-home order goes into effect tomorrow. As an essential community service, OCAS must find ways to continue to serve people and animals in our area while also taking measures to ramp up social distancing protocols to protect the public and our staff.

We have staff working remotely as much as possible. However, you can’t feed, clean, walk or socialize shelter animals while working remotely. Adoptions are necessary but very tricky to perform safely. I am thankful for the efforts of my coworkers and my employer with regard to the concern for everyone’s health and safety.

Thursday, March 26, 3 p.m.

Working remotely as much as possible. Trying to do what everyone is currently being asked to do: STAY HOME. My elderly cat loves that people are home on a regular basis. I find myself being even more productive this way, with less interruptions and distractions.

But there is a dark cloud looming over all of this positive adapting we’re doing. Are my 80-year-old parents going to be OK? And when will I be able to see them? How long can my community function on lockdown?

My concerns are endless. But I’m also very stubborn and determined to get through this. I’ll just take it one day at a time and try to learn new things.

Victor Lytvinenko, RALEIGH Denim co-founder & designer, Raleigh, NC

Thursday, March 26, 1:24 p.m.

Basically, we had the toughest week of our lives last week, and by the weekend I needed to do something positive but didn’t know what to do. There were many reports of the mask shortage, so I went to the shop and made a few prototypes and posted on Instagram asking for details on fabrics, fit and need. It was the most engagement of any post ever by 3x.

I spent Monday and Tuesday making prototypes and talking to healthcare providers and filtration companies, trying to come up with something that actually works. By Wednesday, we got a donation of a Burlington Barrier breathable medical fabric to use, and we started production today.

We are selling some on our site and will be donating two masks for every one sold. To purchase a mask, visit RALEIGH Denim’s online store.

Kaleigh Kurtz, NC Courage defender, Cary, NC

Wednesday, March 25, 9 p.m.

Kathleen Black, Carolina Ballet dancer, Raleigh, NC

Wednesday, March 25, 3:10 p.m.

The Carolina Ballet is postponing the remainder of the season (“Macbeth” and “Cinderella”) to the next season. There will be online performances of past works with new uploads every Tuesday and Friday. Go to carolinaballet.com/performances.

Jean Gray Mohs and Emily Kotecki, educators and co-creators of Tin Can Kids, Raleigh, NC

Tuesday, March 24, 5:32 p.m.

Motivated by the closing of Durham and Orange County schools on March 12, and with rumors and guesses swirling around when Wake County would close, Emily and I felt called to action. We started wondering what day-to-day life would look like being home with Pre-K and school-aged kids.

With a background in distance learning in museums, Emily’s first thought was: let’s combine our collective need (to create structure and connections, for our kids and ourselves, in uncertain times) with our individual expertise (amazing moms who know about every topic under the sun) and create a virtual one-room schoolhouse for and by our kids.

I (Jean Gray Mohs) called right away to jump in and with my expertise as an educator and artist, we spun up an idea, a Google form, and an Instagram feed in about 24 hours. I came up with the name, Tin Can Kids, and designed the logo. I thought about what can represent separate but together, communication, play, kid-created. That’s all epitomized in the logo, and it’s also the very elements that make Tin Can Kids work.

When Wake County officially closed March 14, we were ready. Now, each day families tune in to learn about topics ranging from bugs to compost, story time to creative movement. With the continued growth and interest, it feels like we’re filling a need in parents’ day with opportunities to actively and authentically connect with people and ideas.

The free, virtual field trip lasts about 20 minutes and often have a prompt or activity for the kids to do afterward. We then get to continue these connections by sharing the kids’ creations on Instagram stories. Come join our community by signing up here.

Tin Can Kids, @tincankids, tincankids.nc@gmail.com

Emily Kotecki, @emilykotecki, emily.kotecki@gmail.com

Jean Gray Mohs, @jg.fourdots, jg.fourdots@gmail.com

Tom Fisher, bartender, Durham, NC

Monday, March 23, 6:35 p.m.

Chatham Rabbits, local band, Chatham County, NC

Monday, March 23, 2:39 p.m.

I’m Sarah McCombie, and along with my husband, Austin, we are the band Chatham Rabbits. Playing music is our full-time job. We were on tour out west when we started getting the news that our shows for the foreseeable future were being canceled. As we drove back east, every city felt like a ghost town.

We’ve been gearing up for our biggest year yet, with the release of our sophomore album, great festival slots and shows all across the country. We just bought a tour bus for transporting our backing band and crew. Not that it would ever be a good time for a pandemic, but it certainly feels like this is hitting so many creatives and entrepreneurs at a time that we were expecting to flourish.

Now, with all shows canceled until May 30 (and probably more to come), we are re-imagining what it means to perform for a living. We are getting acquainted with unexpected and unusual time at home, and using it to write songs, invest in our fans through Patreon, stream our shows on the internet, and love on our pets.

Honestly, I am finding it hard to prepare for the future, because we just don’t know when we will be back on the road, and when we will have the financial means to do things like rent a theater for a show, record our next album, make a music video and create new merchandise again.

On the beautiful flip side, our fans are keeping us going. They are working together to make sure we can pay our mortgage and health insurance. They are giving us creative motivation. We’ve had fans commission us to write songs for them, and we’ve had people come out of the woodwork to support us financially through Patreon.

In some strange way, I am grateful for this time. It feels like the universe is telling us to slow down and focus on the essential parts of our lives. It makes me want to put my phone down, and be present right here, right now.

Chelsey Allder Griffith, freelance photographer, Durham, NC

Monday, March 23, 10:43 a.m.

We are the Griffith family, living in south Durham. Last week Tom, 27, transitioned from working at the office to working in our home closet. He is a certified financial planner for Cardinal Advisors, and he’s had some calls from clients all over the country who are worried about their investments and unsure about what the future holds.

Tom has Anti-MOG, an autoimmune disease that attacks his neurological system. An attack could lead to permanent blindness, paralysis or brain damage. If he were to contract COVID-19, he is susceptible to an autoimmune attack even in recovery.

Renly, 2, is recently home all week since his daycare center, Bright Horizons, closed. He misses his friends and teachers at school but likes helping daddy with phone calls. He is exploring the great indoors, as we limit our exposure to others as much as possible. (For ideas on how to keep your toddler entertained, follow @chelseygriffith on Instagram).

Renly has reactive airways, which can be a precursor to asthma. He currently has two nebulizer breathing treatments per day. Needless to say, if he contracted the virus, he is very vulnerable to complications.

I’m Chelsey, and I’m 28. I was laid off from my job in February, right before the COVID scare. I’m a photographer and videographer, now attempting to freelance video edit from home. But the projects available are dwindling. Family portrait sessions, events and weddings are being canceled or rescheduled, which is income that we count on as a family.

I was helping to plan a baby shower for my sister, which was just canceled. While taking precautions is absolutely necessary, we are grieving time away from family. We want to be able to celebrate the arrival of our niece, but now we may have to wait weeks or even months to meet her. It’s necessary to help keep our community and family safe, but still sad.

Most of all, we appreciate so much all the people who are social distancing. Our family’s lives literally depend on it.

WEEK 1

Jessie Williams, small business owner, Raleigh and Wilmington, NC

Wednesday, March 18, 8:45 a.m.

Friday, March 20, 4:15 p.m.

Kyle Rogers, Wordsky Designs head woodcutter, Wendell, NC

Thursday, March 19

Just over a week into marriage and I’m already driving my wife crazy. However, in my defense, I blame quarantine and this (toilet paper) challenge. If you’re bored, I challenge you! Stay safe and stay clean!

Cornell Watson, family photographer, Durham, NC

Thursday, March 19, 7:43 p.m.

Christopher Lopez, chef at Postmaster restaurant, Cary, NC

Tuesday, March 17, 10 a.m.

My name is Christopher Lopez. I am the chef at Postmaster restaurant in downtown Cary. This is my first entry.

This is Patrick. He is our bar manager here at Postmaster. So far this is all today has looked like — sitting around and planning as much as we can. It feels as if we are in limbo when it comes to making arrangements for our staff and the business as a whole. Making long-term plans that may not be necessary (we hope) in the end is the best we can do.

We completely shifted our business model to take-out only, something that we do not do at all in our day-to-day operations. That being the case, we are going into this entirely blind with little to no time to prepare and set up systems to make this happen. Not only that, but we have no market research to back up whether or not our clientele will support this.

As of an hour ago, we are set up and ready to go, just waiting for the phone to ring with our first order. In the meantime, I am doing what I can to make sure voices like my own are heard.

Tomorrow we start partnering with local farmers and food-related charities to help those who are truly suffering during the pandemic. The last thing I want is for this to come across as a pity party for businesses. The narrative needs to be focusing on those that the businesses employ and their families.

We limited our menu to minimize any perishable items and are encouraging large-formatportions to feed entire families, seeing as we are in such a family-oriented area.

We’ve extended free meals to all members of our staff and their families, no questions asked.

These small families that we have built have to stick together during these uncharted times.

Tuesday, March 17, 5:30 p.m.

Our day is coming to an end, and we saw three patrons come through. They all were friends and family making a point to support their loved ones. Hell, two employees came by. We extended free food for all our staff and their families and friends.

Not sure how tomorrow looks, but as news and updates from colleagues flow in, it isn’t looking great. We’re always trying to do right by our people. As we hear more and more from others in the industry, our hearts grow heavier and heavier.

The struggle is starting to settle in more and more, and it’s in the air. For the most part, we have a strong community guideline of helping out one another, but that may become harder and harder in the near future.

Health department is out and about.

Tuesday, March 17, 7:30 p.m.

Service is done. Fed more people who needed it than paying customers, which is a win in my opinion. Hearing more and more daunting news as this thing carries on. We’ll see what tomorrow brings.

Wednesday, March 18, 11 a.m.

Just finished breakfast with the crew. Sitting on a good amount of product that will not last, so we are doing what we can to consume it, donate it or turn it into meal kits for our staff.

Expecting a massive delivery of kale from Burkett Farm soon. Going to braise it and package it for delivery to the Interfaith Food Shuttle. Hoping that will get the ball rolling and open more doors to community outreach.

Wednesday, March 18, 3:20 p.m.

Haven’t seen much business. Couple of tickets here and there. Reaching out to many local media outlets to get the word out. Spending all of our time cooking 80 percent of the kale that was generously donated by Burkett Farm. Got word of another donation coming in tomorrow from Weaver Street Market in downtown Raleigh. That’ll be in tomorrow, and we’ve got our sights on a local organization to help out kids without steady sources of food.

We had to let all of our staff go today and encourage them to file for unemployment. We had very positive responses from everybody when told about the measures we are taking to protect them. Really proud of the team right now, proud of everything we are able to do. I could go on and on about it forever.

Personally I’m doing much better than anticipated. My partner and I are both in management positions within the food service community, and holding our heads up high has proven difficult at times. We’ve got to be beacons of hope and not let the gravity of everything affect what we are doing. Taking it day by day is not something in my nature, and it’s been an adjustment for sure.

As we face more and more potentially stricter shutdowns, nothing is too much when it comes to preparing. We are bringing in bulk goods from our purveyors to distribute to staff and any others in need. I’m all set at my house and am 100% prepared for a shutdown. That is reassuring and allows us to keep going and focusing on the bigger picture.

Sunday, March 22, 1:45 p.m.

Been busy retooling the business. Most everything we sold last week was burgers, so we are doing just burgers and a couple other things for the foreseeable future.

Very difficult thing to do when you don’t know whether or not you will be able to serve tomorrow, but we’ve gotta do what it takes.

Still trucking along, doing what we can do to help others, maintain social distance, and keep the business afloat so we can help our staff and ensure there is even a business for them to come back to.

Keeping heads high in this trying time.

Love how much the community has come together.

Shelby Stephenson, former N.C. Poet Laureate, McGee’s Crossroads, NC

Wednesday, March 18, 12:50 p.m.

How do I deal with the coronavirus? I want to follow the rules. And always I have to write, first by hand and then to type — so I can read my writing.

‘Flutterings of Spare Hair Speckles’

The purple martins swoop home,

Upend their tails and fall inside,

So many I cannot count,

Into the nesting gourds I painted white.

Or in my eyes I leave the black

Out, the snake the netting caught.

This is an old tune —

That a pie could sing with four and twenty.

Nine martins squalling

Over the potato-patch field

Become

More pleasure in my mind.

The toes of the fledglings cling

On the edges like ink-tint.

The aluminum-white condominiums

Shine above the gourds.

What do I know?

The birds prefer the real.

The scout appears in March.

The flock scatters from Central Somewhere far away.

This story was originally published March 23, 2020 at 11:32 AM.